Mothers who have experienced postpartum depression should feel the same way when they see these scenes: the baby cries, and then the mother just lifts him up and doesn't put him in her arms. When the child is crying outside, the mother is upset and would rather listen to the sound of the construction site than to hear the child cry. I can no longer continue to travel around the world. As a literary youth, looking at my increasingly deformed body, I don't think there is anything to be proud of when being a mother and being instilled with "mother's love", and some are only frustrated and upset. And all of this is because of the blame on this little guy. After he was born, he was still so difficult to carry, sleep well, and disobedient. However, after watching the father hold the child in his arms, the child is quiet.
This mother is not a very patient person, and her empathy is not strong. She can't understand the lack of security after the baby leaves the womb, and the strong need for the mother's embrace; in other words, she cannot continue to realize her personal value and pursue her dreams. The pot, my son carried it.
A mother's love for her son has a purpose. Purpose-driven, learning-oriented, and unconditional love and attention that children crave. Mom asked him to complete the action, but he didn't want to, but he didn't want to. Because why do you always ask me to do something to praise me and give me a smile? Never hug me.
As time goes by, in order to get my mother's attention, I have to do bigger things, so that at least you pay attention to me.
Why Daddy's Love Doesn't Work? Because in the first 0-3 years old, it should be dominated by maternal love. At that time, the cold mother who negotiated conditions had already caused great harm to Kevin. Originally, there were still some opportunities for recovery. It can be seen that when my sister was born, my mother began to smile and read picture books, but immediately my mother's attention was on her. Poor Kevin still didn't get the love.
So, the poor father ended up being the victim of the Oedipus plot, killing the father and leaving the mother alone.
I once heard a kindergarten teacher training instructor say: these kindergarten teachers actually have poor work salaries, their own cultural and educational level is also limited, and the threshold for kindergarten teachers is low, so they often become the starting point of employment for many girls, and they may not really like their children from the bottom of their hearts. In addition, the working environment of kindergarten teachers is noisy and the work intensity is high, so we often see the problem of child abuse in the society. How to establish an emotional connection between teachers and children starts with a hug from the garden. This hug will be very successful in establishing the emotional connection between the child and the teacher, and at the same time improve the happiness of the teacher's work.
At the end of the film, the mother finally hugs her son.
Go home and hug your children or parents~
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