At that time, I used naughty and silent accusations of dissatisfaction with you, I refused your concern with my hands, and I examined your disguise with my eyes, just to prove that "you don't love me enough...you don't love me."
When it comes to Kevin, the reflection is an extremely sensitive self. Childhood feelings can not be ignored, it even determines the initial judgment of personality cognition. If you say, "What's wrong with kevin?" it's better to say, "What did kevin demonstrate?" The answer is, no. From the first day we are born, we will think about ourselves, deep or shallow. Kevin is the part of the person who thinks about his own experience. He will think about the future, the reason, and the ending. In fact, his verification has been proved time and time again: "The world is hypocritical and ridiculous." To him, his mother was a figure that he had seen through his sensitive heart long ago, and he could laugh at it and disdain it. Let go of education or morals and we need to talk about the struggles of human nature. People are afraid of losing (that is, being abandoned after getting them), because they are not optimistic at the beginning, so they make things more extreme and more attractive, so as to win the attention of the other party. This is the disguised desire to be loved, the opposite of self-esteem and self-preservation. Every injury to another is his salvation as well as self-abuse. There are a lot of sensitive people like kevin who are always hurt unintentionally. A look or a word from the other party was as sharp as a spike in their eyes. Of course, such people never make trouble without reason, they just analyze rationally and come to a result: That look in your eyes means "You don't love me!" Kavin is hesitant and firm. He used his entire childhood and teenagers to prove it - "She doesn't love me..." In a childhood where it is easy to think too much, kevin Not shady. He is just naughty and unwilling to give his heart to others. How childish and difficult it was for him to get along with his parents. He was afraid that he would be hurt, and he was constantly verifying, "I'm so bad, can she still lie about being on my side?" Of course, a family needs to run in. When the mother opened up her prejudice, when Kevin recognized her mother's efforts. Together, they tried to open their hearts and try to be beautiful... However, a heart-wrenching picture suddenly appeared. Kevin was still naughty, he used his small hand to gently drop water on the little sister's head, and before he could smile, he was scolded twice. How sensitive Kevin was at that time, he was hesitant, he questioned, he was sad, he was at a loss, he understood, he sneered alone... In his opinion, his parents' scolding was because he thought everything was getting better and he could be accepted. At that time, they pushed you deeply again, and really said, "You bad boy, don't hurt your sister." And he felt that he just sprinkled a few drops of water... People always protect their favorites and ignore them. With everything that is dispensable. If it is said that people just lack genuine communication, it is better to say that you do not love and understand each other enough. Every word we say may be in the middle of pain; any conclusion we give may wipe out hope. For sensitive people, sincerity and tolerance can provide comfort and let them put their guard down. Please also be gentle with each other, please face the sincerity, forced love and hate will distort our will. What's wrong with Kevin? He was hurt. Don't make excuses, this is hurt. We do need to understand, but how can it happen if it's not love enough? Perhaps the perpetrator did not know that the needle tip he accidentally exploded pierced a sensitive heart. For example, a father who was driving while drunk asked his deadpan daughter in the back seat: "Are you afraid?" "Not afraid. Because you're my father, you won't make fun of my life." "Yeah, not at all. But, there's no guarantee that there will be a loss of control..." The father is proud of his driving skills, and also gives the possibility of accidents. In fact, if you really care about it, how can you drink and drive with your close relatives? It is true that our love is sometimes false, but it is not a total denial. Sensitivity is not vulnerability, it is just a more rational view of the problem. When sensitive people were rescued and decided to embrace hugs and tenderness, the implementers did not give the paradise they imagined. It's not that the love they demand is too high, it's just that the living people always hurt each other. Therefore, the sensitive people are desperate... We can't achieve the kind of realization that the mother in the movie did at the end, and the spiritual world needs to be destroyed again and again before we understand that only "truth" is the answer. We crave "love" and cannot get pure "true love". Friends say that they want to be together forever, but they will hate each other when they find that they are not enough. Sensitive people are like this, they have certain shortcomings that are not accepted by everyone, so they are careful, or reject "false love". We need to talk, and when I'm ready to accept your warmth, I'm going to show you my dark side. If you still love me, I will offer the confession of my life. This is, the answer.
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