Friday night, finally able to breathe. Watched the movie One Day. The first time I saw this movie, although I liked Anne Hathaway, I thought the movie was a bit boring and hypocritical. It was very different from ordinary romance movies. I just couldn't figure out what the hero and heroine were doing. My own life, I see each other once a year, there are intersections, but they are like two parallel lines, so it is very boring to see.
About two years later, I was bored on the plane and watched it again. It seemed that I felt a little different. I was able to calm down and read it, but I didn’t understand what message the director’s story was trying to convey. The third time was at a friend's house and I watched the first half of the movie and then I said goodbye.
Today is the fourth time I watch it, and I seem to understand it because I cried many times. This love story is so good because it's so real. The ups and downs of life, from innocence to maturity, will make mistakes, will get lost, will disappoint those who love themselves, and will lose confidence in themselves. But the hearts are connected, the moments that people are close to are so beautiful, and the beautiful things are easy to be fleeting. How far one has to go, how many trials and setbacks one has to go through, can one understand the true meaning of life and the things worth cherishing. Because real life is not perfect, and loved ones also have a time to say goodbye, and the kind of beauty and love that can stay in my heart for a long time and can change a person's core is the meaning of everything. It's not a fairy tale at all, but it's so real that it's like the life of each of us. Looking at the subtitles of the movie, the year numbers are turned over, and then stopped abruptly at a certain point. Life is impermanent and unreasonable.
I think Emma is precocious, she is very secretive about her love, but she has always been firm. Love makes her smile so happy, love inspires her potential and talent, and makes her shine. And Dexter has always cherished and understood her talent. In her darkest moments of inferiority, he could still see the smart, talented and worthy Emma under the greasy uniform. Dexter has been with so many women like a playboy over the years, and the only women who really love him are his mother and Emma. Love is accepting and understanding the real him, seeing the kindness and beauty that he may not have found himself. A detail that moved me very much was that when D's mother was seriously ill, he was so young and frivolous that he made her worry and sad, but even if her mother wanted to express her dissatisfaction and remind him, she still affirmed him "I have no doubts, you Grow up to be a great and upright person, it's just that you're still a long way from that, and you worry me now." Love is full of trust, not blind accusations and hurts. For D, love is the destination of his soul, and he knows too well that "hot sex can't make people fall asleep with peace of mind". After Emma died, her ex-boyfriend told D that she made you delicious, and in return you made her so happy. Both were unknowingly. Love makes people happy, makes people want to be better, it is so simple and magical.
Thinking of a sentence, the most worthy of cherishing and grasping in life is each other. The length of fate is fixed, but watching deeply and lighting up the beauty of each other's lives will never die.
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