Learn to accept your imperfect self, you are a miracle——Feelings of watching "Miracle Boy"

Mireille 2022-04-21 09:02:00

It is one of the greatest things in the world that a person knows how to face up to his own imperfections. ——Inscription your eyes are so small, your nose is so flattened, you are so short and fat, like a winter melon, your voice is so ugly that you have a birthmark on your face, it is so ugly that you are only 20 years old, why Looking like 30 years old... As human beings, we will always hear people around us make unkind comments about other people's physical flaws, or what they think are imperfect, even malicious abuse and harassment. slander. For these voices, it is best not to care, because then we will not hurt ourselves and live a happy and happy life. But many times, we will be hurt by these remarks, especially when we are very young and mentally immature, we will be hurt even more deeply by these words, and even develop a sense of inferiority, forming a scab that does not fall off automatically. As soon as the wound is torn, the blood will flow out again. Some people may get into a fight with an unfriendly speaker, telling the other person to shut up and not dare to offend easily in the future; some people may gradually get enough of this kind of language with time and experience. Self-processing and purification ability, I feel that "what's the big deal about this thing, I still go my own way, how you like to say it"; some people may have changed the original through taking medicine, plastic surgery or some external exercises Appearance has regained self-confidence; of course, the most serious thing is that there are still a small number of people who may live their lives with this inferiority complex. No matter the circumstances, we are always hurt by these words, from physical flaws to psychological ones. Just like the protagonist Auggie in the movie "Wonder Boy", many times we want to wear a helmet, or use a certain object to cover up the defects of our body, or simply go out without seeing any outsiders, and then imagine if we can have " Invisibility" super power is just fine. This reduces contact with the outside world and escapes the eyes of others. But human beings are inherently social animals. We are destined to keep in touch with other people. Our food, clothing, housing and transportation can only be solved by dealing with the outside world. It is impossible for us to grow vegetables at home without relying on anything, and it is impossible not to buy any Items of life, not dealing with anyone. When we were young, we could rely on our parents and brothers and sisters, but one day our parents will grow old, and our brothers and sisters will one day form their own families. It is impossible for us to take care of us all our lives, so the result of not being able to go out is to build a prison for ourselves. Then trap yourself in it. That's why Augie's parents must take him to school, and why The reason why he must take off his helmet and bravely walk into the campus, because no parent would hope that their children will not be able to take care of themselves after a hundred years of age. Although such a decision is difficult, taking this step will inevitably lead to many attacks, especially after 27 operations, there are still many scars on the face, and even I feel like a "monster" when. But Auggie bravely walked into the campus under the consternation, guidance and discussion of others. Of course, it was mixed with all kinds of slander, exclusion and isolation, which made Auggie beaten and even wanted to quit several times. School, put on the helmet and go back to the home that is very safe for you. Fortunately, his parents, sister, and friends were always by his side, which made him slowly open his heart, and he was also in contact with the outside world, and felt that not everyone in this world looks at the face, and most people value it more. Ability and talent, value the friendship left by each other, and are more willing to pass on love and positive energy to others. It's as if Auggie's classmates would be impressed by his outstanding performance in science class, as if Jack would have to get close to and care about Auggie because the school gave him a stipend, but in the end, he was moved by Auggie's sincerity in each other's interactions and became Auggie. Best buddies, even at the risk of being expelled to fight with Julian, who is in trouble at every corner of Auggie (to complain, I don't understand why the little boy is named Julian), just like Tushman, Mr. Brown, Summer and the others will sincerely To care about Auggie, because not everyone in this world has such a dark heart, there are more good people in our society, they are willing to care about others, take care of others, be willing to make friends with others, and are willing to fight with you to exist in this Some malice in the world, not because you have an ugly face. These people and events gave Auggie warmth and the strength to stay and fight against the world. Of course, the most important thing is Auggie's inner affirmation of himself, which is an important force for him to fight against the strange eyes of the outside world. There are two very powerful and moving points in the whole film. One is when Auggie used practical actions to prove that learning science was just a piece of cake for him when faced with Julian's questioning of his ability to learn science; One was when Jack asked Auggie, "Have you ever wanted to have plastic surgery?" Auggie touched his hair with his backhand and replied, "It's been done, but I've worked so hard to be so handsome." The light-hearted ridicule pierced the tears, and I believe that many audiences who saw the movie will have the same feeling as me. In fact, it is not scary for a person to feel a moment of sadness because of his physical defects. What is scary is that we have been trapped in In this kind of sadness, not being able to love yourself well, you will hurt yourself and your family, even though they are not afraid not to be hurt. Fortunately, Auggie came out, relying on his optimism and strength, and relying on the love of family and friends. In the complicated world, when we have certain flaws in ourselves, we are destined to receive more attention and discussion than others. The only way to make ourselves calm is even if there is no scientific and medical way to help. When we overcome these flaws, we can still fully accept ourselves and declare loudly to the world, "I love who I am," and the world will be bright in our eyes. Finally, to make a call for Auggie's actor Jacob, the acting is naturally too good. Of course, there is also my favorite big-mouthed goddess, Julia Roberts. Hollywood actresses will face the crisis of not getting good roles when they reach middle age. In recent years, your performances have become less and less, but every drama maintain a certain level. Although you are no longer as young as you are on the screen, but you didn't choose plastic surgery, and you didn't get injections, you have more wrinkles on your face when you smile, but I still want to say that this is still among all the Hollywood movie stars I have seen. The most beautiful smile.

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Extended Reading
  • Mariano 2021-12-31 08:01:42

    A bowl of sweet but not greasy chicken soup of universal value, very delicious. Before I saw it, I thought it was about the protagonist boy. It turned out to be chapter style. Everyone has a story. Everyone has a perspective. Everyone has a choice. Everyone is beautiful and very good. Before the show started, my friend told me that this movie is as fresh as summer, yes, yes, it is like cucumber water in a transparent and clean glass bottle, safe and healthy, and sweet.

  • Felipe 2022-03-22 09:01:44

    "School sucks, people change." When it comes to the heart, multiple perspectives bring cruel and warm stories. Auggie is simply a live-action version of Paddington Bear. The fans cry and laugh, this family of four is so beautiful, the mother is gentle, the father is reasonable, the sister is sensible, Jack is cuter than the little male protagonist, and the little sister is like the daughter of 20,000 families

Wonder quotes

  • Mr. Tushman: Auggie can't change how he looks. Maybe we should change how we see.

  • Mr. Browne: When given the choice between being right or being kind, choose kind.