Because the friendship between men is difficult to interpret, it is easy to become unlovable if the interpretation is not good, such as a pair of masters and servants (Di Renjie and Yuanfang), or friends (the movie version of Homles, although Watson is arranged to get married, but also The ambiguity can't be washed away). Of course, friends may not be unlovable, but they are obviously not suitable for Homles and Waston. Because the plot requires them to be a tacit partner, a too complicated and intense relationship is obviously not conducive to maintaining rationality and cooperation between the two. I just think about the good movies and televisions that deal with the relationship between men and men, such as Speed and Passion. It is the sympathy and conflict between the rebellious police and the iron-blooded bandits. The relationship between the two strong men is definitely not a long-term cooperation. , But each occupy the top of the mountain, competition and accidental collaboration. The law of nature is: a mountain can only feed one tiger. The same goes for Denny and Allan in Boston legal. The young and strong of a strong man has the possibility of admiring each other (of course, it is also out of the arrogance of the surrounding ordinary people, and the two mountains echo each other). Suddenly Yuliang, if there is a time difference of most of his life, it would become Feng Qingyang and Linghu Chong, or Denny and Allan.
One man and one woman avoids the embarrassment that Watson is just a compliment due to one strong and one weak, and also avoids the inability of two tigers to live together. The two are good at winning the field and complement each other. Minutes make you feel very sweet, but it won't let you determine whether this is friendship or love. This kind of inconclusiveness is precisely the stage with the most dramatic tension. In fact, this is also the golden stage of a relationship, if you have tried to have a long-term relationship.
For example, after Watson's ex-boyfriend once again disappointed her after her help, he chose to self-exile. W waited for him late in the drug rehabilitation center. The busy Homles pushed away all work and came to her. He didn't point out that the scumbag would not show up in the usual style, but just sat next to her and waited with her. For another example, W knows that H is in a bad state, and when their escort contract expires, she chooses to continue to take care of H without payment. For another example, W discovered that a former doctor colleague may have died of a patient due to negligence, but as a doctor who had had a major accident, she lost her confidence in judgment. What H did helped her but regretted to rebuild her confidence and completely let go Dedicated to a new career in the past: detective. . . . . . These are friendships, because after getting to know each other, they cherish each other, and because they are interdependent partners, they are willing to spend time with each other. But if it happened to two men. . . . You know.
In fact, I would like to say that some good conditions of cooperation are exclusively for male and female partners.
It may be that the gender is different, which weakens the competing antibodies. It may also be because some of the characteristics of men and women are complementary. In short, not every pair of men and women can become partners, but there is no doubt that once a pair of destined men and women partners form a stable and powerful chemical bond through running-in, they are a pair of golden combinations, which can definitely promote mutual peace. Inspiring, cooperating seamlessly, bringing out the best of each other, is far more than just one plus one equals two. H's judgment on W shows that he recognizes this.
Therefore, in a certain episode, the offer that Homles gave when he solemnly invited Watson to join, I think it is more touching than a marriage proposal. Full of sincerity and consideration, even Watson, who has contradictory self-esteem, could not refuse, because he was sincere, and because the person who made the offer was smart enough to remove the psychological barriers that might cause her to refuse. The reason why this passage is touching is that it is not easy to meet a good partner, and it is no less difficult than finding a soul mate. This kind of affection can hit our hearts just like love. However, if this passage appears in a marriage proposal, it will be very embarrassing. Even with the same sincerity, you will still feel that the other party is an exquisite egoist, and you will not be ashamed to say these calculations. Because the consensus is that love should be inexplicable, cost-benefit is not calculated, desperate, the so-called do not know what to do, go deep. ——At least the consensus of most women is so. Such a consensus may cause many women to get lost in love, but I think this intuition has a positive side: it may not make people think about love correctly, but it helps people distinguish between partners and partners, which is also very important.
Sometimes, a good partner will spend a long time together. Maybe at some stage, he will appear in your life longer than your family. At work, each other tends to give each other the rational and forgiving side, and the tacit understanding and trust felt in the process of reaching the goal together. This kind of wonderland often inspires some sparks of suspicious love. They misunderstand that they are living for each other. China will also be in harmony, or simply secretive emotions, but this is definitely a big misunderstanding. I have no data to prove that such feelings are unreliable, but from the perspective of "basic deduction", it is no different from Cheng Dieyi's love for Duan Xiaolou. Covering such a partnership relationship to the entire life will only cause the individual to lose one or some roles in his life, and thus lose balance, and the relationship will also collapse.
Let me make a prediction. Sherlock Holmes is a sensitive, kind, childish, cute boy who has just given up drug addiction and needs to be cared for; Watson is a strong-looking, maternal person who has suffered setbacks in his career and was disappointed emotionally. , But the imperial sister who tried to move on. So, in the end they will be confused, but in the end they will not love each other-because then their partner relationship is over, which is obviously not allowed.
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