However, as it often happens in reality, the more virtuous and self-restrained, the kind and kind women are single, they envy love, long for love, and believe in love. They hope that their first love is infinitely beautiful, and it is best to hold hands directly for the rest of their lives. I hope that I will be the most considerate, gentle and pleasant "wife" as soon as I come up, so even if they don't want to be so virtuous, they still have to pretend to be very beautiful. Even if they are so virtuous, men still don't understand how to appreciate them. ! ——Because in the story of Cinderella, forbearance and kindness are the magic weapons to overcome all!
Once upon a time, I was also such a cool mushroom. I want to be virtuous, hard-working, considerate, gentle... I will do all these beautiful words to describe everyone! But every time I see those small works, not too hardworking, and even some self-willed best friends, all find Prince Charming, and they are coaxed happily, my heart is like an overturned five-flavor bottle. Why? ! Why can't I appreciate such a "beautiful" woman and man! ?
In fact, even if such a "beautiful" woman is really appreciated, it is estimated that most of them are the role of an old mother, especially suitable for becoming the last best and strongest confidante of a man, helping him find a daughter-in-law~ How sad
is it like a woman in 27 dresses What Pig's Foot felt was why she was so longing for love, forbearing secret love, and selfless devotion women were not as popular as her bitch sister, and deceived the heart of her beloved man with just a face and a manipulative mouth, She was hit hard! Could it be that her silent devotion character and her persistence in anticipating love were wrong?
I love that scene where she suddenly comes to her senses, looks at the closet full, packs and throws away all the bridesmaid dresses, and empties the closet! In fact, those bridesmaid dresses are the "should" you are full of in your heart.
Who said women should be considerate and meticulous, gentle and graceful? Who said that women should endure and endure and dig their hearts out? Who said that women should be forbearance and kindness and self-discipline? Throw away those things that should be, throw away those burdens, and throw away those labels that are pressing on you and can't breathe!
be yourself!
Only you can truly be yourself and let men see your true face, selfless and selfish, good and bad, tolerance and rejection, this is the real you, only a man who can accept you like this , it is worth having you!
Don't be gentle and virtuous at the beginning, as if you are afraid that you will not work. Do you want others to sacrifice their lives to call you, or do you want men to know that you are especially suitable for being an old mother? Don't work hard for those unreasonable and harsh reasons, there are tolerant concessions but also principled rejections!
In fact, I think the reason why the female pig's feet can get love is of course because the male pig's feet are attracted by the kindness and tolerance in her character, but more from her changes! When she was packing the wardrobe, it was actually when she was packing her mind. She admitted her desires and some of her selfishness, so that she could give herself more courage and finally be able to take that step:
⒈ Confessed to the boss of the crush, which gave me the opportunity to try, and found that the beauty of the crush is only in fantasy, and the reality is completely the opposite - no feeling.
⒉ Tell the man you really like your feelings, not to keep yourself entangled to death, but to follow your own heart to express your feelings, no matter how embarrassing or not, no matter what the result will be, only after taking this step can you It is possible" to develop!
So, I don't want to say that I used to be naive, that may be a process that too many people must go through, but now I don't choose to live that way. Shy and ignorant, pretending to be beautiful on the outside, tangled until dawn but no one knows the days are too hard, just follow your heart.
Acknowledging that some of you are not beautiful, and giving yourself more freedom and courage, is not to become a perfect girl in the eyes of others, not to live to attract men, but it is easier to gain a true love!
Beauty starts from the moment of change! be yourself!
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