Disclaimer in advance: This article just wants to use a humorous way to resolve the contradiction between men and women, at least not to solve the conflict in the form of quarrel, and has no intention to provoke confrontation between men and women.
It is said that men think in a straight line and women think in a curved line . These two very different ways of thinking will inevitably lead to differences in thinking and behavior, and the lack of understanding between men and women will naturally lead to conflicts.
The conflict is only a small flame, and each other can endure it. Once it burns into a raging fire, how can it be easily extinguished without an earth-shattering quarrel?
Arguing will inevitably affect feelings. Moreover, some boys have clear thinking, strong logic, and they speak in a straightforward manner. They always quarrel according to their own ideas, and finally let the woman disarm and surrender.
Even if it's a routine operation, men can't win a woman who "has been rambunctious", but quarrels always make women feel hysterical and show their ugliness .
What's more, the quarrel is just the beginning, you have to use a knife and a gun, and have a real fight. In each other's eyes, there are no two scars on the body and there is no truce. The light ones are put on iodine and some medicine, and the heavy ones are squatting somewhere for a few days. It's really worth the loss.
However, sometimes, some situations are really annoying. Looking at the man in front of me, I don't do anything. It's too uncomfortable to hold my breath in my heart. What should I do?
Teach you a way to be relaxed and at ease, elegant and clever, to sway men both brightly and secretly. Let the man clearly feel something, but he can't tell the bitterness, and it is hard to tell in his heart, so that the war between you and the man can be divided before the war begins.
How to fight? Very simple, take him to a movie, I highly recommend watching the 2017 Spanish movie "The Invisible Guest".
This is the only movie I've ever seen in which men hate in the first half, and women are cool in the second half. It's used to hate men without negotiating. You can watch it on many websites.
First, the sequence of the plot
The plot is very simple. Doria and his mistress Laura go home after an affair. Because of an accident, they hit Daniel who is driving onwards.
In order to avoid responsibility, Doria sank Daniel and his car into the bottom of the river, while Laura was responsible for finding someone to repair Doria's car.
When the matter ended and returned home, Laura couldn't stand the condemnation of her conscience and fell ill, and finally told Daniel's parents the truth of the matter, and asked Doria to meet in a remote hotel, trying to persuade him to surrender.
Doria's choice failed Laura's wish, he killed Laura.
In order to make the truth of the matter public, to find Daniel's body and bury him, Daniel's parents conspired, and a lawyer with his mother disguised as Doria successfully obtained the whole truth from Doria's mouth.
The movie ends with Daniel's parents making a phone call.
2. How to attack a man
Such a simple plot, because of the director's suspenseful + interlude way of telling, becomes quite suitable to watch with a man you really want to beat when you are angry. Let me introduce it to you.
First, the first 64 minutes of the film set the first version of the story.
After the car accident, it was Laura who directed, instigated Doria to abandon the car, throw S, destroy evidence, and even frame Daniel. Doria is always a passive, afterthought, and helpless character in this version of the story, any man Watching this plot, I hate to say "the most poisonous woman's heart".
At this time, hold your breath and let the men vent their depression, because the next is the women's home court.
From minute 65 onwards, the film tells another version of the story.
The roles of men and women changed. The real initiator of planning and operation after the car accident was Doria. He even ended Laura's life after Laura turned himself in due to his unbearable condemnation, and then conspired with the lawyer to push all this away. To Laura and Daniel's parents.
At this time, after suppressing for more than an hour, you can turn your head and say viciously to the man beside you, "Men don't have a good thing".
Believe me, this kind of big turning point when you hated women a few minutes ago, but finally found out that the man is the initiator; this kind of discovery not only hates the wrong one, but also the man as a compatriot is the big BOSS who should really be hated. The turn of the gods will definitely make the man next to you very embarrassed and extremely embarrassed. If you can give him a shovel, you will definitely dig a hole and get in.
If at this time, you will make a joke again , such as "Isn't Doria very pitiful?" "Isn't it the most poisonous woman's heart?" The effect is absolutely magical, giving you a perfect score.
In the last 20 minutes of the movie, it turns out that the lawyer who has been trying to help Doria get out of the crime is Daniel's mother Qiao Zhuang, and the end of the movie hints that Doria will eventually be repaid, and the good drama begins.
3. Discuss the movie viewing experience with men
How can you forget the routine of watching movies? Talk to your man about the plot and share your "movie-watching experience" with each other.
During this process, you can discuss how you want to come, and you can say whatever you want to say based on your movie experience.
Here are a few directions for discussion:
NO1. Compliment our female compatriots. The same mistake was made, but the female compatriots were deeply condemned by conscience, suffering from intermittent phobias and deep depression. Facing mistakes bravely, correcting them, even at the cost of their lives. What about Doria, a fellow male? I don't need to say it.
NO2. Talk about a woman who is weak and a mother who is strong. Daniel's weak and sick mother bravely disguised herself as a lawyer to face Doria, with acting skills, wisdom and courage to find the truth for her son. Women are like water, flowing slowly on the calm lake, and when they encounter the narrow mouth of sand and stone, they will advance bravely. Remind the men around you not to provoke women easily.
NO3. Talk about Doria's wife not mentioned above. That is a beautiful woman who knows that her husband breaks up stealthily and decisively. No woman is inseparable from a man. If you dare to feel sorry for a woman, then let's say goodbye decisively. To paraphrase actor Zhu Zhu's words, "Man, there are many!" The way of heaven is good for reincarnation, whoever is forgiven by the heavens, those who do wrong will definitely pay the price.
In the movie, Daniel's mother always emphasizes "details, details". There are still many details in "Invisible Guest" waiting for you to dig out. If you have time, watch this movie and dig out the details yourself.
Even if you don't watch it with a man, it's not a disadvantage to find some material to hate men . After all, we women do not have an advantage in fighting, and speaking is definitely our home field.
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