When I saw that the male protagonist failed to propose twice, I wondered if this is actually better. If I watch it on bilibili, I feel that many people will scold the male protagonist and a few people for "no sense of responsibility". I suddenly discovered that the sense of responsibility is very important in Chinese families, but this sense of responsibility is sometimes unnecessary, and sometimes it is necessary to stop losses in time. Because many times two people are groping in their relationship, they have many choices, and it is really difficult to tell which is the right one until then. Once it is determined, confessing the problem between two people in a timely manner will be good for both parties' lives. When you try to solve the problem after you have children and the property you have worked hard together, everything becomes a hundred and ten times more complicated. If the male protagonist proposes to Emily and she happily agrees, and the male protagonist doesn't almost cross the line with April overnight, I don't think their marriage will be happy either. Their problem is already obvious. The two have different life plans. This is doomed from the moment the male protagonist decides to come to New York alone from his hometown. So I feel that Emily's confession actually saved a lot of quarrels between the two after they got married. Summer too, the problem with them is that they are too similar. Although they are both smart, funny, and beautiful together, I feel that there are not two people in a relationship, but one person and one direction. In real life, this goal can be achieved. There are several ways, such as one party makes a huge sacrifice, usually in terms of career, and in China it is usually the woman. Of course, the best way is for the two sides to fit each other and make progress together. Unfortunately, ideals are always beautiful, but not always reality. The two of them just couldn't back down. The final result was that Summer chose a career, and the male protagonist lost his career and love.
When watching the movie, there is another idea that the male protagonist's daughter mentioned: who is the most important thing in love, or the timing of the person you meet? After watching the movie, I feel that I can understand the reason for the answering time, like the male protagonist when he met each of these three women, I believe that at a certain period of time he fell in love with her (otherwise he would not proposed), that every time he fell in love, it was serious and serious. In fact, I don't think it's difficult for people to fall in love with different people, so I feel that timing is very important, and it will determine whether the two can be together in the end.
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