Choose one of three love: who is more important in love and when?

Abby 2022-04-21 09:01:54

When we were young, we all fantasized about a love that would never break up. Loving someone is a lifetime.

As we grow older, we experience more, our hearts become more turbid, and our attitude toward love becomes more complicated.

Some people regard passion as love, some people struggle between the boundaries of love and friendship, and some people don't believe in the existence of love at all, or they believe that there is love but do not believe that love will fall on them.

In fact, love can’t help us at all. We can’t control when we meet someone and fall in love with someone, and when we meet the right or inappropriate person.

In fact, love can be not so beautiful, but it can still be beautiful beyond our imagination.

Today I recommend an unpopular love movie - "Choose One of Three Love".

Some critics said: romantic realism work, I love this film. . . Physiological love. The slow story tells a big truth: "Every time love is definitely, the result is maybe".

This film is especially suitable for people with glass hearts to watch, it will make you discover the multifaceted nature of love and become more calm and firm.

From the title, it can be seen that the film tells the story of a man and three women who fall in love and choose.

The first woman sahra, will's first love, intellectual beauty, she was his innocence and all the good .

Will has to work in New York for about 3 months for his career. Sahra doesn't want to go, nor does he want him to go, but in the end Will still goes alone.

Because he loves sahra, will proposes to sahra, but sahra tells her that she cheated during that lonely time, and they broke up.

Years later, they met again because they were both single and chose to be together again, even married, but eventually separated.

The second woman summer, charming, dashing, independent, a woman who is very selfish.

She has a strength and calmness that is rare in ordinary people. She has no worldly ties. She can sleep with her mentor in her 60s, and she can boldly kiss a will when she sees a favorite Will for the first time.

After will and sahra broke up, they got together and they had a harmonious relationship, even Will planned to propose to her.

However, she hurts Will in pursuit of her career, and they separate.

Perhaps, for Summer, marriage is just a bond. She should have had a sincere relationship with Will, but her heart and thoughts made her sad for the life of an ordinary woman, but she also helped Will gradually mature.

The third woman, April, is sweet on the outside and delicate on the inside, a woman who has witnessed Will's growth along the way.

She liked Will from the beginning, but Will didn't know it, and she was the kind of person who would feel humble because of love, and was used to avoiding the important in front of the person she loved.

Just as she has always used a bright smile to cover up the loneliness of her demeanor, she always likes to cover up her heart with irrelevant or concealed conversations.

She has always been by Will's side as a friend, and when the male protagonist is confused, she encourages him and comforts him.

One day later, April finally mustered up the courage to come to Will to express his intentions, but Will was about to propose to Summer, and he asked her for her opinion again. She was really sad and angry this time and left.

In the end, Will finally found himself in love with april, but it was too late, april already had a new boyfriend.

Compared with the cruelty in reality, Will was very lucky in the end. When he summoned the courage to go to April again, she was unmarried and he was divorced. They finally completed this story of breaking friendship and gaining love.

Does true love depend on the person you meet, or does it depend on the right moment?

This is an interesting point the movie gives us to think about.

Perhaps, sometimes it is important to meet someone, and more importantly, at a certain point in time, you will just want to settle down and want a solid and stable relationship. This timing is even more important.

Because people with this kind of mentality at this time are often more inclined to choose to meet people at the moment.

In fact, what kind of people we meet and from different time points, both of them are jointly affecting our emotional direction, but the proportions of the two are slightly different.

When you want to explore, it seems that what kind of talent you meet is important.

And when you want to settle down, that timing seems more important.

In any case, everyone is an independent individual, and we can interfere a little with our own emotional tendencies, but we cannot interfere with the choices of others. Just like in the movie, when Will was about to propose to his first girlfriend sahra, he found out that she had cheated with his roommate.

And what we can do is, don't think too much all the time, don't worry too much about where your true love is, be yourself, be independent and strong, maybe you don't need to find true love, she will find it herself!

I hope every one of you can find someone who suits you!

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Definitely, Maybe quotes

  • Maya Hayes: I love penguins.

    Emily: Me, too.

    Will Hayes: Me, three.

    Maya Hayes: Did you know that penguins mate for life? Although, Mr. Monell told us that sometimes the husband and wife penguins get separated because of their migraine patterns.

    Will HayesEmily: Migratory.

    Maya Hayes: Well, sometimes they're apart for years, but they almost always find each other. Do you know what the husband and wife penguins do after they find each other after all that time? Throw back their heads, flap their flippers, and sing as loud as they can!

    [imitating a penguin]

    Maya Hayes: Wah wah wah!

  • Maya Hayes: Did you know that 35 people try to jump off the Brooklyn Bridge each year, most because of broken hearts?

    Will Hayes: I'll keep that in mind.