1. Don't think about coincidences, creating conditions is more reliable than just talking about romance at first sight.
Joe fell in love with Baker the first time he saw Baker in the bookstore. The two had a good impression of each other, but Joe learned about Baker's intentions through follow-up tracking. In the subway, he happened to have the conditions to save Baker, which deepened the relationship between them. The feelings of the two. Not to mention how scheming Qiao is, in love, if you only rely on love at first sight and no subsequent efforts, you may stop at the moment of first acquaintance and no longer contact.
2. Trust each other and respect each other's secrets, which is a better state of getting along in love.
Joe himself is a very suspicious person, but I hope that Baker can love him with all his heart. When he felt almost, he let Baker go free and smashed his spare phone, but Baker's character is like this, she has too many secrets of her own , and later also looked at Joe's hidden secrets, which eventually led to tragedy. In love, mutual trust is very important, but we still have to respect each other and try to leave some space for each other.
3. The fastest way to know a person is to look through her social network information. (except for those who don't like po to surf the Internet)
In this day and age, many people like to write something on the Internet, and put some photos or moods on Weibo, Moments, Instagram, etc. It is through this that Joe learns about the heroine's family situation, living conditions, her friends, and boyfriends. So generally, someone who has just met someone who has a heart will also go to the other party's circle of friends, etc., to quickly get to know this person and find the common ground of interest.
4. Three days of visibility is enough to protect your past, and be careful offline tracking.
Although there are few people like Qiao who love to stalk and spy in reality, girls still have to be prepared to protect themselves when they go out. The third rule says that if you know a person, go through the records of this person on the Internet, but sometimes three It's also very important to see from the sky. It's actually scary to know each other crazy when you first meet. In addition, follow carefully and unconsciously, and remember to draw the curtains when the curtains are drawn.
5. Lies are generous. Hesitating for a second may cause problems.
Every time Baker did something sorry to Joe, she would cover it up when Joe asked her. She deliberately didn't look at the phone when she received a call, and the other party didn't answer the repeated calls. This will make the relationship between the two go downhill. If you really want to hide the fact that you want to lie, answer quickly after hesitating for half a second. Don’t tremble in your language. Just say what you’re going to eat today. It’s better to answer the repeated calls casually than not to answer them. I hope people in love never use it.
6. Stay away from your ex, and listen to half of what your ex's ex said.
Karen is smart, sensible, caring, honest and straightforward. I'm a girl and I like her very much. When she and Joe were together, they were relaxed and happy with each other, but they met Baker on the street. Joe couldn't resist Baker's temptation. The two fell in love again, which made me angry. This kind of ex who loves deeply, if you can not touch it after the end, don't touch it, and don't step into the same mud again and again. If Baker could listen to half of Karen's words, it wouldn't be so miserable in the end if he met a good ex like Karen again.
7. Giving is not unrequited in return, and it is necessary to respond to the other party in due course.
Joe devotes himself wholeheartedly to love, and Baker enjoys the love given to her by Joe, but the feelings of the two are not equal enough. Joe has been doing things for Baker, contracting the chores such as cooking, buying food, cleaning the room, etc., so that Baker can devote himself to writing, but Baker rarely greets Joe's feelings, but Joe will also look forward to it. So no matter who loves more deeply, they have to learn to care about each other's emotions.
8. Don't cheat, don't love too much.
Baker's relationship always seems to be on the verge of cheating. She loves to play too much. Even so, Joe should not be aware of it. Even if the relationship fades, he should not cheat during the love period. If you can't figure out such a relationship, people who love each other are very tragic.
Joe has loved too much, lost himself in love, always takes each other very seriously in love, and does not allow others to show affection to the person he loves, even breaking up is unacceptable. If you want to be healthy in love, you must balance the relationship between life and love. Don't let love disrupt the rhythm of life and work, and don't let your private life become a playground for love.
9. It's true
Joe loves Baker so much that he can still start a new relationship with Karen soon after breaking up, not to mention Baker. What we thought of as true love is indeed true love, but anyone can continue to live without anyone, and even if you don’t invest in a new relationship, you can divert your attention by investing in a new job. There is no need to do extreme things for love, love is simple.
10. In the end, love is your own, right?
Let’s write ten points of truth. The tenth point is the truth that I am not sure about.
After watching the show, I was thinking that there is a high probability that love is generated for self-satisfaction, just like Joe loves himself more, otherwise why would he kill Baker. If he gave Baker a way of life and let her rethink her life and start a new life, at least Baker would be happy. Even if Joe was in prison then, he should have felt relieved for the person he loved, and maybe it would be in exchange for Baker's forgiveness. But Qiao actually chose to kill her and use the book to blame the psychiatrist to complete self-redemption.
Thinking about the people he killed for Baker and his ex-girlfriend before, it feels like he has an emotional cleanliness. To tell the truth, the male main is not paranoid and has no shadows when he was a child. From other aspects, he can be regarded as an ideal lover.
Well, the ten truths of love, but what is the truth of love? Love + empathy, you don't need so many routines.
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