Are you a man to love, or a man to have sex?

Veronica 2022-04-22 07:01:17

This movie was recommended by my brother. My brother, 7 years in Canada. I, Sydney 2 years. And we haven't had good communication for 20 years, although Dong Ai recommended this golden scripture, although I always feel that my temper is very similar to his, even though I want to get close to him. That day, we chatted for 6 hours, from the evening to the early morning, but we didn’t talk about our career and studies at all, we only talked about the most important things. . Is love a cloud? In the end he recommended this film to me.

After reading it, I still don't feel good about it. He said that in the ending of love, the most important thing must be the initial choice. If the initial choice is right, then everything will be fine. If you choose the wrong one, the consequences can be disastrous.

But the most important thing is not how to choose the right person? Who can tell this. Choosing love is not an exam question, there is no correct answer.

I like GIGI in the film the most, and ALEX. Because maybe, like me, he is the kind of direct, careless person who is easy to be completely changed by someone else's words. And always believe in true love. Looking at GIGI is like looking at the past self, always chasing passionately, never regretting giving, and always waiting for that sentence, he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you at all. The only way to comfort yourself in times of despair and sadness is to believe that someone who loves you will be waiting in the future. The result is still the same. . long time. Do you think everything is bullshit

? Is there any kind of trap, skill or just sincerity in love? I want to say that the film expresses a little wish that love is won by sincerity.

Is this true in real life, with a discount? But for me, since I don't know how to use those skills or some small routines, the only thing I can rely on is sincerity, and the only thing I can believe is that sincerity can get special cases. Someday someone will tell me: You are my special case.

Does love have to be married? If you abandon the domestic concept of family and marriage? The answer is not necessarily. Married people don't have to get divorced, like Janine's. Those who don't get married may not be able to last long, like Beth's pair. (Insert a sentence, I have never liked Jennifer Aniston, but this movie has begun to like her, which is great. Ben Affleck looks really my food, so TMD taste) To

put it bluntly, it is still a sentence, what ? Always be sincere. After all, what you get in the trap will be lost. Watching Janine's broken heart to clean up the pieces alone, at that moment, I felt that this film had a bit of truth. Jennifer Connelly is worthy of the Oscar-winning actress, and she brought the most heart-shaking moment in the film. A cold woman finally set herself free once. A woman should not marry for the sake of marriage, it must be because two people love each other deeply.

Many women feel that women have the upper hand in romantic relationships. Women are always too stupid and innocent. In fact, women think too much. I am, always think that a few details of a man are love for himself. Always think that some actions of a man who loves him are deception. If you think too much, it will be cloudy.

If he loves you, he will call, and he will accommodate everything about you. If he doesn't love you, don't force it. There are so many flowers outside, but there are also as many fairy grasses. Men can think of not giving up more wildflowers for one flower. Why can't we women give up this dull and tarnished tree in front of us for more fairy grass and don't care about you at all. . . Time waits for no one..

I like Scarlett Johansson very much, but I think Anna in this film is just average. You can say that I am envious and jealous, and you can say that I am down to earth. Women can not think stupid, but don't stupidly think that a man will give up another woman for you. There is no essential difference between women, only men. Looks will bring you more men, but looks can also lose you. Make you unable to see yourself. It also makes men unable to see you clearly. So when the corner commented on Anna, he said, you are cute and you are sexy. And Anna felt wrong, because corner didn't know everything about her, and Anna herself didn't know everything about herself. What is the real self, everything is covered in the perfect appearance.

Therefore, it is definitely not unhappy for a woman to be ugly.

After watching this movie, I realized one thing is very clear. There are only two kinds of men, those with brains and those without brains. In other words, there are two types of men, those who want love and those who want sex. Men with brains include Alex, corner, and beth's husband. Although they have different personalities, they all understand what they want, and they will eventually wake up for love. And Ben is a man without a brain. He got married for some unknown reason, he was confused when he was having an affair, and he couldn't help having sex with his wife when he was having an affair. His love is hidden under sex, more often sex for sex's sake. The purpose is different, and the ending is of course different.


This movie becomes clear that you can only choose one in a relationship. Is it love or sex? Women are all about love, most fundamentally, love for love, and sex for love. So don't worry, it doesn't mean whether there are more men left or more women left. As long as the men in this world still want love, you will surely find someone who truly loves you. Don't be afraid to wait, true love is worth waiting. long live the true heart. Someday someone will say to you: you are my special case

woman don't be deceived by the appearance of some men. He said he had a wife and didn't want to be with you, but ended up having sex, he said it was because you were too sexy. A good man doesn't say it, he does it. Like ben. Like corner. Don't listen to what the man says, watch what he does


Alex may be a little messy at first. But seeing the restless GIGI, he was the only one who comforted him from beginning to end. He never asks for his help, he is a good man in his own right.

I think there are two types of women in the film: innocent, and self-innocent.

Innocent Mary, Gigi, Beth. Self-innocent: Anna and Janine. The

former is about the same, and the results are both good. Innocent and silly women may always be deceived, cry, and be at a loss. But there will always be genuine rewards.

But being sincere is a little different. Janine is more intellectual, and is not the kind of innocence itself. I have been living a very boring and cautious life, forgetting the importance of a woman's innocence, until the broken mirror wakes me up. And Anna just thought she was innocent. . . . She's not that bad either, if you look at it from Western culture. She passionately falls in love with a married man, and then has sex with a man she doesn't love from time to time. If it wasn't for corner's last request for cohabitation, the most feminine part of her heart was knocked into her. She will go on like this.


The facts of the East and the West tell us that women should not arm themselves, but should be their truest self. Silly, neurotic, crazy, it doesn't matter. You change yourself for someone, or you think you really have the ability to handle two men at the same time, it's all fake. Women need to be loved, to be cared for, and they need to be completely released to love others. This is the most important thing to

release yourself to love and unarm yourself. If this man will only let you arm yourself, you are not ready. Then let it go


. Men, women are the same, in one point, that is falling in love. When we meet love, we all disarm. When we meet love, we all become simple.

Don't think it's cowardly if a man doesn't confess to you, and don't think it's cowardly that a man doesn't dare to take responsibility. Don't make excuses for your fears. If a man loves you, he will tell you, if he doesn't love you, even if he confesses to you one day, that doesn't mean he loves you. .


Love you will say it out loud. .


Women, don't wait for the men you don't love to reply, love those men who love you more, this is the right way. .


I have no way of knowing how much truth the film says, everyone appreciates it, and I appreciate it myself. Love is not like that. Don't think too much. .

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He's Just Not That Into You quotes

  • Mary: What if you meet the love of your life, but you already married somebody else, are you supposed to let them pass you by?

  • Alex: I really gotta go to bed.

    Gigi: Is that an invitation?

    Alex: What?

    Gigi: Oh god, That was cheesy.