Is he, like me, thinking what the other person is doing, and is just too embarrassed to express it so he doesn't text?
Did he want to call me to chat with me in order to hear my voice, but the phone just happened to be dead?
Did he want to go online and share with me the funny video he watched recently, just because he was afraid that I would go out?
Does he pick up his phone every now and then to check for the latest text messages and can't concentrate?
Does he really want to go out with me, but he just doesn't know what kind of excuses are just right to be unobtrusive?
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Besides a slight look in the other's eyes, a slight movement, and an inadvertent sentence, his brain has already started to operate rapidly, and he has imagined thousands of possibilities to excuse him.
What did he mean by calling me that just now?
Why did he only tell me about one person?
Why did he agree to my unreasonable request?
No matter how slow a person is, he has become the sharpest detective at this time, and he can't escape all kinds of clues in his eyes.
Wake up and stop hypnotizing yourself.
He just temporarily forgot your name.
He just couldn't find someone to talk to.
He just thinks you're annoying.
When you toss and turn and recall what he said during the day, you can't remember what he said when you left.
When you stay up late to write a diary for a look in his eyes that he can't even remember, people would have fallen asleep long ago.
When you sweetly share some of his little actions towards yourself with your best friend, they are high with others.
"We are constantly speculating about every look, every action, every word of the man in our hearts, which can make us call out all the sisters for a meeting and analyze it, make us toss and turn and sleepless, and make us feel like a lunatic. Then we fell asleep and the women in the other hemisphere woke up and did the same thing. It's kind of sad, but, that's it." This is a passage from Chandler in Friends, and I'm sure all the girls will smile when they see it. .
Ambiguity hurts everyone, and whoever cares more will hurt more deeply. The law of ambiguity is not to take the initiative, not to refuse, not to be responsible. Whoever surpasses, loses.
Don't believe in bullshit theories like "it's not the right time" and don't think he didn't make a statement because he was thinking of you. If he really loves you, he will want to hold your time firmly. Will want to give you happiness, will want to walk with you. If it continues like this, it can only mean that he is just not that into you. Don't always think that you are an exception, miracles may happen to you, wake up, in fact, you are just a regular case, he just has no interest in you.
Happy ending. Surprise of the movie.
Your own happy ending is not to live in the details of others, not to live in the unconsciousness of others, not to live in your own sensitivity, and not to live in your own lust. The highest state of Zen is to "let go", let yourself live a more Zen-like life, don't be sentimental, he doesn't really like you that much, love yourself well.
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