(S)He's just not that into you

Lorenz 2022-04-21 09:01:55

The psychologist who wrote "Intimate Relationships" says that people who claim that men and women are from different planets and speak two languages ​​are only trying to sell more romance bestsellers, when in fact whether it's a man or a woman, when it comes to a relationship , the mental state is the same.

But at first glance, science also seems to have a vacuum.
For many men, women really don't know what they're thinking.

If they see GiGi, Beth, and Janine discussing those dating rules like they're reciting legal terms, the first reaction might be What the hell are thinking about?
Also, what the difference can it make to say Nice to meet you before or after a date? , It is impossible for the men who said this sentence to remember when they said this sentence.

Neil and Beth refused to get married for seven years together, and maybe he couldn't understand why this woman was so entangled with a marriage certificate. I love you and we're happy together. Isn't that enough.
That's right, isn't it just a marriage certificate, how much actual change can it bring to the lives of two people, and it can be divorced again after the marriage, promise to be a shit.

However, I wonder if men have ever thought about why women invent so many rules to restrain themselves and torture themselves. Don't they want to fall in love easily just for fun?
Because girls always care.
They care more about each other and the relationship, so they are willing to make greater sacrifices.
They care more about themselves in the relationship and are more afraid of harm, so they invent so many rules to remind themselves to warn themselves and push themselves.

A man's world is so vast, with ideals, careers, dotas, buddies and lovers.
But for many women, the world is complete with just me and you.

Of course, it must be fair to say that maybe it is a woman's problem to think about it, but it is not a man's patent to be afraid of making a promise, and it is the same for many women.
So the best solution should be that people who are dating should choose one or the other first, those romantic and free people should gather under the sign of JUST FOR FUN and have a good time, and the other group of people should sit down and talk about the future under the sign of WE WANT MARRIAGE , and then scolded the JUST FOR FUN group who had hurt them by the way - "Can not handle a serious relationship? Then don't be in one".
It's just that I personally think that no one is really afraid of making a promise and really doesn't want to get married. The real subtext of my not wanting to get married should be, I don't want to marry you. The real subtext that I really don't want to get married should be that I haven't met anyone who makes me want to get married.
Don't you see so many men and women who are "afraid of commitment" being forced to break up by someone who has been with each other for five, six, seven, eight, or nine years, and then they immediately marry someone they have only known for three months, and claim that they are very happy.
Not everyone is Tony Leung, and not everyone has Carina Lau's ability.

So it's not necessarily that only the girl's best friend will say to her, he is just not that into you.
There will also be a boy's buddy who will say to him, come on, that girl will just play with you, listen The buddy persuaded to break up with you quickly.

If it is as Faye Wong sings, our love is like a war.
Then the one who cares, the one who cares more, has already lost from the start.

It's just that I have always had a question.
If you give all your money and don't seem to be able to take care of your complete self, you will be scolded as this stupid B who only needs love.
But if you are in love with each other and you become scruples in paying, then, what's the point.
They say, why do you have to be so extreme, can't you be in the middle and weigh it?
However, the trade-off is how to do it.

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He's Just Not That Into You quotes

  • Gigi: Maybe his grandma died or maybe he lost my number or is out of town or got hit by a cab...

    Alex: Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again.

  • Gigi: Hey sorry to bug you again! Uh quick question.

    Alex: What's going on?

    Gigi: Ok I'm making out with this guy, PG stuff. but he mentions he's going out of town so he's gonna be out of touch.

    Alex: Run.

    Gigi: But maybe he is going out of town.

    Alex: To where? New Guinea? Where's he gonna be that he's gonna be out of touch?

    Gigi: Opens bathroom door - Where are you going out of town to again?

    Gigi: Pittsburgh

    Alex: Run.

    Gigi: So what now I'm just supposed to turn from every guy who doesn't like me?

    Alex: Uh. Yeah!

    Gigi: There's not gonna be anybody left.