The beginning of the movie is very interesting.
From natives of a tribe in Africa, to white-collar workers in high-end restaurants in New York,
from wealthy middle-aged women to slender girls with devilish figures
, in almost every corner of the world, there are girls asking:
Why did he not give I call? Why doesn't he come to me? Why did he suddenly lose contact?
Then, around such a girl, there is always a group of best friends who persuade her.
Friends always say, "He just did this because he loves you too much", "Maybe he's shy", "Maybe he has a low self-esteem", "Maybe he doesn't know how to contact you", "Trust me, he must like you" ...
Women just want to quickly make their sisters laugh, but they rarely think about how to wake them up.
The truth is, maybe he just doesn't want to find you.
The movie says that if a man really likes you, he will use all his power to find you, mobile phone, email, msn, google... This is no longer the stone age, he really likes you, even if he experiences tsunamis and floods, even if you disappear in the In a sea of people, looking for a needle in a haystack will still find you.
If he is passive and reserved.
"Maybe he didn't want to destroy our friendship", "Maybe he was shy", "Maybe he had low self-esteem", "Maybe he just didn't know how to contact me"...
Gerg said that throughout the course of human history,
Any man will not care about breaking up his "friendship" in order to get close to you, and it is impossible for him to be too afraid to chase after you because of his shyness and inferiority. Will not know how to contact you, mobile phone, email, IM, SNS, twitter... He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, network, google to find you - unless he doesn't want to find you.
Maybe some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age, girls should take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him - because he will take the initiative to send it to your door.
If he doesn't do what he promises you, even if it's just a phone call.
"He was really busy so he forgot" "At least he really apologized to me"... He is very busy, he is about to take office as the President of the United States, and he has to negotiate hundreds of millions of dollars in business an hour. It's crazy busy to not have time to call you. There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dialing. Sometimes, when you don't even want to make a call, the phone is dialed out of your trouser pocket. Why don't you have time to make a call?
If you really like you, you won't forget it. If you forget, it means that he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in a relationship, synonymous with "jerk," the person who perfunctory you with being busy.
—(sound) Men know what "priorities" are, as for apologies? Oh, no time to listen to his nonsense.
If he is ambiguous.
"He's been hurt before", "His life is messed up now", "He just broke up/divorced and he wants to take it slow" "He's used to being free"... These are all urban myths used to deal with girls that guys don't like.
If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous, and he will declare the ownership of you in the world. He does not want to see your friends and family, saying that because he is with you and not with your mother, he does not want to Willing to take you into his circle and say because it's just a matter of two people.
If he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, then please automatically translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time" "I don't like you very much".
If he doesn't want to get too close to you.
Gerg said it very directly, "I'm a man, if I like you, I'll kiss you, and I want to see you in underwear and without underwear." Although it feels embarrassing and cold, it's true to think about it.
If you like you, you should like your inner and outer. Don't you want someone who likes you to say "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend"... I guess Plato doesn't like the old man either. would say so.
if he betrays you.
"He drank too much" "It was just an occasional accident" "He was careless"... Gerg was right, there was no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally", it's impossible for him to say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell on someone else's bed." Knowing that it will break the rules in love, he has to implement them , you should just dump him, the worst thing is that some people may doubt their own charm because of this, whether they should have plastic surgery or not.
Gerg said it coolly: "You don't need to lose 20 pounds, you need to lose 175 pounds—the weight of your unpromising boyfriend."
If he's drunk enough to come to you.
He is addicted to alcohol or drugs (this should not be common in China), and he is unwilling to change for you, then he should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.
If the time is right but he still doesn't want to get married.
"Maybe I'm too open-minded" "He was shadowed by his childhood family" "He's not ready"...Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists... all can I will give a lecture criticizing the marriage system, telling you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract, but I'm sorry, first of all you have to understand that "don't want to get married" may just mean "don't want to marry you", Those who say "don't want to get married" will eventually get married, just not with you.
If he keeps breaking up with you, and then comes to you again.
First of all, please keep your demeanor and stop calling and texting him. If you break up, it's a break up. You don't think that as long as he comes back to you, you can continue to chat, meet, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed the fish, greet his parents and friends, use his voicemail to check his call log. . . . .
The person who really likes you won't break up with you, and won't toss you over and over, so please wake up, unless you want to be a yo-yo champion.
If he suddenly and inexplicably disappeared.
Don't spend a lot of energy on solving the "Missing Man Mystery", no matter you find all kinds of evidence and excuses to comfort yourself, the only truth is that he doesn't want to be with you anymore and has no guts to be with you say clearly. Trust me, there's no secret - he's not good enough for you.
if he is married.
Not much to say, at least until he gets divorced. If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain. Sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too low self-esteem, too holy, too fond of his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too Oedipus, too busy, too much childhood shadow, too much family pressure, too tired, too crazy, too tan Too dark, too suicidal... but unwilling to see the simple truth.
Yes, he wasn't too busy, he wasn't injured, he did
n't have childhood shadows, he wasn't in an accident, he
wasn't about to be the president, he wasn't concussion with temporary amnesia,
his phone fell into a hot pot, he wasn't amnesia, and
it wasn't you . Strong enough to make him not worry, he just doesn't like you that much.
So someone asked, how to believe that he likes you. In this world where all rules can be broken, and all morality is slowly dissipating, how to firmly believe?
Please, forget all the rules I said more than half an hour ago. Never trust the rules, trust your own feelings.
I think this era needs a little more self-deception, telling ourselves that he actually loves you,
It tells you to treat a person with confidence and devotion, no doubt, no doubt, speculation and temptation.
Remember what we said about "running hard and falling down beautifully"?
In love, please run bravely, firmly, and desperately.
Then, even if you fall, you can still say that you are gorgeous.
One of my favorite lines from He's Just Not That Into You. It was a girl named Gigi. After she misunderstood that a boy liked her, and then confessed that it was a misunderstanding, she said something after being ridiculed by the boy.
Gigi said: "I may be too sensitive and fussy, but at least that means I still care. Do you think you will win by using all these rules that can see through girls? You may no longer be hurt or embarrassed, but you will never experience that kind of love again. You are not winning, you are alone.
Maybe, I have done a lot of stupid things, but I know that I will find the right person faster than you. Trust your feelings and love your life. Maybe the so-called happy ending does not include giving you a perfect guy,
maybe the so-called happy ending is to keep moving forward with the hope of never giving up.
Run with tears, fall down gorgeously.
A sea of people, walking and loving.
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