movie just released in the United States called "He's Just Not That Into You". In fact, he doesn't like you that much.
"All unmarried young women should see this movie."
The beginning of the movie is very interesting.
From the natives of a tribe in Africa, to white-collar workers in high-end restaurants in New York,
from wealthy middle-aged women to slender girls with devilish figures
, in almost every corner of the world, there are girls asking: why did he not give I call? Why doesn't he come to me? Why did he suddenly lose contact?
Then, around such a girl, there is always a group of best friends who persuade her. Friends always say, "He just did this because he loves you too much", "Maybe he's shy", "Maybe he has a low self-esteem", "Maybe he doesn't know how to contact you", "Trust me, he must like you" ...
Women just want to quickly make their sisters laugh, but they rarely think about how to wake them up.
The truth is, maybe he just doesn't want to find you.
The movie says that if a man really likes you, he will use all his power to find you, mobile phone, email, msn, google... This is no longer the stone age, he really likes you, even if he experiences tsunamis and floods, even if you disappear in the In a sea of people, looking for a needle in a haystack will still find you.
If he doesn't do what he promises you, even if it's just a phone call. Don't make excuses for him, "he was really busy so he forgot", "at least he really apologized to me"... He is busy and you are not relaxed, who is not busy in this city? Are you busy enough to take office as the President of the United States, or do you have hundreds of millions of dollars in business to discuss in an hour? There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dialing. Sometimes, you don't even want to make a call, and the phone is dialed out of your trouser pocket.
If you really like it, you won't forget it. If you forget it, it means that he doesn't care about your disappointment.
Men are never "busy" about what they want.
If he is ambiguous.
Don't explain for him: "He was hurt before", "He just broke up/divorced, he wants to take it slow", "He is used to freedom"...
If a man really likes you, he will not be ambiguous, just Will declare the world's ownership of you. If he likes you but wants to take it slow for personal reasons, he will make that clear to you right away. He won't let you guess, because he doesn't want you to get lost and leave him. If he doesn't want to see your friends and family, he doesn't want to take you into his circle, saying because it's just two people's business, then please automatically translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time", "I don't I like you so much."
if he betrays you. Don't think about it: "He drank too much", "It was just an occasional accident", "He was careless"... There is no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal doesn't happen "accidentally", he can't say "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell into someone else's bed."
If he came to you when he was too drunk, If you don't want to change for you when you are sober, then you should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.
If the time is right and he still doesn't want to get married, maybe it just means "don't want to marry you", and
those who say "don't want to marry" will definitely get married in the end, just not with you.
If he keeps breaking up with you, and then comes to you again.
If he suddenly and inexplicably disappeared.
if he is married.
So many ifs, in fact, there is only one answer.
Sometimes we would rather believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too low self-esteem, too fond of his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too busy, too much childhood shadows, too much family pressure, too tired... but not willing to see the simple truth.
Yes, he wasn't too busy, he wasn't injured, he did
n't have childhood shadows, he wasn't in an accident, he
wasn't about to be the president, he wasn't concussion with temporary amnesia,
his phone fell into a hot pot, he wasn't amnesia, and
it wasn't you . Strong enough to make him not worry, he just doesn't like you that much.
So someone asked, how to believe that he likes you. In this world where all rules can be broken, and all morality is slowly dissipating, how to firmly believe?
Please, forget all the rules I said more than half an hour ago.
Never trust the rules, trust your own feelings.
I think this era needs a little more self-deception, telling ourselves that he actually loves you very much, and asking you to treat a person with confidence and devotion, without doubt, speculation and temptation.
Remember what we said about "running hard and falling down beautifully"?
In love, please run bravely, firmly, and desperately, and even if you fall, you can say that you are
my favorite line in the gorgeous "He's Just Not That Into You". It was a girl named Gigi. After she misunderstood that a boy liked her, and then confessed that it was a misunderstanding, she said something after being ridiculed by the boy.
Gigi said:
"I may be too sensitive and fussy, but at least that means I still care. Do you think you will win by using all these rules that can see through girls? You may no longer be hurt or embarrassed, but you will never experience that kind of love again.
You are not winning, you are alone.
Maybe, I have done a lot of stupid things, but I know that I will find the right person faster than you.
Trust your feelings and love your life.
Maybe the so-called happy ending does not include giving you a perfect guy,
maybe the so-called happy ending is to keep moving forward with the hope of never giving up.
Run with tears, fall down gorgeously.
A sea of people, walking and loving.
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