This is my second brush.
The first time I saw it, I put myself into the character of gigi. After the second brush, I was about to enter the third year of social work. In the process, I realized that when we were young, only love was in our eyes. , As time goes by and the more I experience, I find that love alone cannot face many trivial problems in life.
As Qian Zhongshu wrote: "Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out."
When we look up to or envy the life that others have, others also have their own confusion in life.
This second brush, it was Beth and Neil who poked my tears. Beth's father was sick. Even though they broke up at the time, Neil went directly to Beth's house to help her with the housework. The two smiled at each other. Beth's tears could no longer be contained and embraced. Maybe it was this moment that Beth finally let go, compared to the brothers-in-law who were married to their sisters but only sat in the living room and played games. It doesn't matter whether you are married or not, the important thing is that the person around you can always guard you, no matter what you experience, let's accompany you to move forward. At the end of the movie, she finally got the long-awaited wedding ring.
In my impression, I remember that when I first brushed it, it was also the thinking of popular women. Men's opinions about not wanting to get married or whether they are married or not are the same as being hooligans and showing that they don't love each other enough. But this second time, I have a deeper feeling: marrying someone in a hurry without knowing what you really want is one of the manifestations of being irresponsible to yourself.
Janine and Ben's marriage is that. Janine can bear Ben's blunt confession of cheating, but she can't accept the fact that he's hiding from her time and time again that he smokes.
It's also a good thing for gigi to find her true love in the end, but in fact, she herself is not as afraid of being hurt as before. People who have been hurt in the emotional world will learn how to hide their expectations, and those who are not afraid of being hurt are only a small part.
Some time ago, I also made up my mind to delete a person who I thought was possible but was actually impossible.
I can live with loneliness, but I can't stand my humble appearance.
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