It does not deserve to be called "movie criticism". Qualification, you can also write something for this movie. Actually, it's not about this movie. It's about Milk, about gay marriage in China, about human rights and about self. I don't intend to raise this article to the height of consciousness. , just expressing my own feelings on film-related issues.
I'm still young now. 24 years old. A pure T. The kind that was born. All out of the closet. Friends, colleagues, and family all know My situation. I have a bad relationship with my family, and it has nothing to do with me being gay. As a person, I feel that I can be considered relatively mature from the perspective of thinking. After all, my life experience is not shallower than my peers, and my social recognition Knowledge can also be said to be deeper than most people.
Let me talk about a real problem first. I am 24 years old. I have worked for two years. The income is fixed at around AT6K-7K. And the salary must be increased at any time I want. --- Please don't worry, I say this to understand some of the issues I will mention below. ---- In conclusion , as far as social productivity is concerned, I must be a qualified or even superior productivity. My accomplishments in many technical and intellectual fields can even be said to be excellent among my peers. The salary is just for an example . Of course it's not all. In short. I have such an income, at least to prove that I have created a lot of wealth for the society, and I can obviously create more wealth for the society.
But. Maybe, if I can have a stable life relationship. I think I will continue to work hard and even feel at ease to really devote myself to social value creation work. Saying that I'm not really competing with people for wealth, and I'm not really trying to make money) But my decision now is that when I'm 25, if I don't have a stable romantic partner. I'll never turn back Quit my job. Be a backpacker
and travel around the world. It's a bit confusing, some people don't understand what I'm trying to say. Here is the first question I want to talk about. I'm a social person. A social person who creates value and creates wealth. But I feel that I can't live in this society peacefully, and I don't have enough security to make me live like an ordinary person. Therefore, I can't maximize my social output as a human being. And I can only waste my labor because I need to solve my survival myth problem.----I feel that there is nothing in life. There is no home. So I make money or not, what does it matter to me?- ---And if I am an ordinary man (here is an analogy), then I may easily marry the person I love and have children. Have a normal and healthy family. Then I will be very satisfied in this Work and survive in society. Make efforts for my family to have a stable life.
Every individual's life must carry a purpose or a kind of dependence. People have to have a home to live in. Courage and enthusiasm. Why is society for society? Why does society provide social people with all aspects of security? It is not because these guarantees protect material interests such as property, but more importantly, these guarantees maintain the personal dignity of individuals in society. , To put it bluntly, this can even be understood as that social security establishes the sense of existence of individuals in society. It gives them the right to maintain and strive for their own well-being as human beings. Because of this, social talents will live and exist in peace. For the world Create wealth.
If a person can't even see the hope of pursuing personal happiness, or even feel the pressure beyond his mental load. What will happen to him? He will die.
If this person is actually a person who has received a higher education, he He could have created extraordinary wealth for the society, but he died because he couldn't find the meaning of existence and couldn't find a sense of belonging in life, so he suffered from personal cognitive damage. Then I think this is a potential waste of social creativity.
If this person is based on the premise of the above two points, it is even more tragic that he is aggrieved and survived because he cannot get environmental recognition in the society, and he cannot devote himself to social work and life in the most ideal state. Affect the people around. I think this is a potential social unrest factor.
If the above three points. Not one person, but a group of people.
If the above four points. This group of people appears in a country in a fixed proportion Medium.
If the above five points. This fixed ratio is fulfilled in a country with a very high population base.
Then, in addition to focusing on what we have gained from social progress, it also focuses on what we have invisibly lost due to mistakes and lag Can I, here, understand this effect as an unhealthy butterfly effect that is detrimental to society? Can it be concluded that society does not provide this person who is better than most ordinary people in almost every way except being a homosexual Is the guarantee of my basic social existence a mistake? Can I understand it as an imperfect social system that damages the ideology and health of some people’s personal existence, and how much creativity and wealth is invisibly damaged and wasted ?
When we study the progress of society, we often only see what people do for society. We often ignore why they are engaged in such work. No aircraft can fly without the help of stable airflow There is no element of success that can exist in isolation by accident. As a social animal, why did the marriage system exist at the beginning of the establishment of society, and why should the meaning of family be guaranteed and legislated? This is because it is The basic elements of life that a person must have to live in the world.
Why did Milk devote himself to the cause of fighting for equal rights?
Not because too many people around him died. But because he finally understood that if he left it alone, if he did not speak We will continue to suffer from the so-called mainstream society (the masses are always lagging and blind. We can directly call it blind and ignorant popular society). We will have more people die!
And the dead Man, is it the most unfortunate one? I don't think so. I think those who are alive are more miserable. We are more miserable.
What does marriage mean to us? This is beyond the imagination of ordinary people. I don't want to talk about it here. Because this is a more complicated topic after it is unfolded. I just want to explain the simplest truth. Love needs to be provided by society. Protection. Because people are fragile animals. We need equal rights. We need right social status. We need marriage. Because we are entitled to demand justice and protection from society! Because I'm also a fucking capable A person who creates social value! However, now, this society has made me not interested in working in it at all. What is the value or not worth talking about?
I did not deliberately exaggerate the effectiveness of a paper marriage. Again, this issue is very complicated. There is no need to say more. For us who have been discriminated and oppressed, what we expect is actually justice. It is just justice and fairness. Because of love, it should be fair!
Then. I look at it Because, most people in the country are lagging behind. This is a doomed truth. But it does not mean that our entire society will never stand still. Society will always progress. No matter how slow the development of consciousness, there will eventually be progress. Progress will not come out of thin air, it requires the efforts of many people. It needs the contributions of many people to achieve it.
Three years ago, Phoenix Satellite TV made an appointment with Luyu about LES. The production and director were originally in that southern city. I found a 20-year-old me. At that time, she was more distressed that things were not progressing. She mentioned issues related to homosexuality. She said that many gay men are more courageous to come out for interviews. And women are very few. We talked a little about this topic Chat. There is no need to expand the specifics. As a heartless me, I must promise her without hesitation. If I don’t find a more suitable person, I don’t mind appearing on the screen. Later, I introduced her to the central person who was interviewed. .Because I am too young, so naturally I don't need to be the speaker in front of the camera. That is, around that time. Sichuan University held a public lecture on the issue of homosexuality. A GAY who spoke at that time, a month The representative of Lianhua. I am too lazy to say anything about the latter. All in all. There is a very interesting phenomenon here.
In the gay circle, it is undeniable that the overall quality and standard of gay men are better than that of women. But there are many outstanding women. But their lives are more secretive. Or those who live in first-tier cities, others don't like this kind of thing at all. of social activities. Often simple men. They are more active in expressing and expressing their opinions on similar issues. Of course, this is not surprising.
First of all, one thing must be determined. Homosexuality. Always a minority in society One more thing to be confirmed .
Comrades who are willing to act as representatives and devote themselves to fighting for the right to speak for this group are definitely a minority among us.
Now I want to ask. Others, why are you comfortable with the status quo? When you complain that life is not good at the moment, have you ever thought about what price you should pay for it all? Are you also one of the factors that caused this bad situation? Could you have been, at least like a Just like a living, bloody person. Face yourself and others more confidently. Whether it should be possible. Within a limited capacity. Face up to the lack of our rights. Take a fair, objective, and serious look at our existence.
Is it really impossible for a Milk to appear in China? I don't think so. Maybe it's just that the times haven't advanced to that point.
But that's not a reason for us to stay out of it.
We can't always complain that the world isn't to our liking and act as that Indifferent bystanders.
The world does not change for no reason. After there is a conscious drive, there are characters who trigger events and then cause the change. And what role do you and I play here?
Conscious drive? You have Characters
, I know that few people dare to be that martyr like Milk.
Events. Events are so dependent on the first two elements. But at least for now, I only see Chinese youth standing by.
World, when I was young, what else could I do for you. To make you successful. Improve. Transform. This is a multi-angle issue. Compared with other forms, I tend to be more of an actionist. So, I will ask. What is there that I can do? Besides the transmission of consciousness, what else can I do? Without the right to speak, what should I do? Can we have an effective organization, is it possible for us To establish an effective system, can we also lay the foundation for the emergence of our Milk? Ask yourself. If one day, a Milk appears in our country, you will have the courage to follow in his footsteps and bravely put yourself The kind of person who is present in society? If your answer is no. Well, I want you to ask yourself. What role do you think you play in this era?
Life, for us, It is more hard work than ordinary people. It is more harsh and harsh. But basically I don't complain about it. At most, I complain. I have worked hard for life. A chance, I don't resist choosing to live like Milk. Because I don't live for me.
Because neither of us should live only for "me".
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