I think everyone will have a label-style movie at each stage of life. Maybe it will be ridiculous and funny when you turn to it after many years, but it is indeed the state at that time. When you want to recall something one day, just Find it out and let the actors in the movie stage their memories. Life is like a disc bag, some are good-looking, some are ugly, some are printed with world famous brands and are very valuable, and some may be just a few pieces of plastic film. It depends on the acquisition and possession the day after tomorrow. Then label it, make a list, add it again and again, and finally it's a complete life. "Mary and Marx" should be collected by many people, because everyone has been alone. Mary and Max were not born with a good disc bag, especially Mary was also troubled by the ugly birthmark. It was ordinary, and there was an extra stain, which made it a little worse than ordinary. Because she was born and cannot be changed, Mary began her lonely life from the beginning. I have already been isolated because of natural conditions, but I do not change it. I would rather sink into it, be isolated by more people, and make myself cramped in a small space, and it is more and more difficult to get out. In fact, Mary has not liked herself since the beginning, so she is not qualified to win the love of others. She complains and never considers her own problems. It is not that vanity. Negotiating heart, keep everything in your heart, don’t talk to others and say that others don’t understand, no one is born with the kind of inductive power they want, it can really be called a mistake from the beginning, and then Make mistakes, make mistakes, and make mistakes over and over again. What was suppressed in my heart finally found a person with whom I could communicate. What I didn’t expect was that that person was also so lonely, even lonelier than myself. At least I had a goal, and the people on the other side of the world didn’t even have a goal. When two lonely hearts come together, it seems that there is a common magnetic field, and they can talk to each other about their troubles. Together, and then we are not alone because we have each other. Mary can ask a lot of questions, because this person is defenseless, they haven't seen it, except for a few words, they don't even know if the photo is real or not, we are just strangers in a faraway place, no matter how far away your telescope is I can't see my loneliness in the southern hemisphere, but I just want you to know what my loneliness looks like, and I hope you know what it feels like to be alone, because you have felt it before, so when I talk about it, you can share it, and I too You can really tell. Because people's hearts are fragile and they long to be touched, she can only think about too many things. She may not be born pessimistic, but the first movie in her bag is already the first half of "The Ugly Duckling". How to go out, she has always hoped to change, it's not that she can't, she doesn't dare. Inferiority was the first position she subconsciously gave herself, and she always felt that she was inferior to the people she could see in front of her, and she didn't dare to express anything. It's really sad. You can express it, but you don't dare to express it or take the first step. It's like Mary's neighbor who is infinitely afraid of the outside world, and all the fears are actually made up by yourself. Mary, too, couldn't say anything in the face of the person she liked. They are too pessimistic about the unknown, thinking that waiting for a suitable time, suitable enough to be successful, but they have not waited. And dear Marx, his loneliness is hopeless, Mary just doesn't dare to communicate with people, and Marx is already in a state of fear, his life must have a correct rule, like a program entered into a computer, if not Going down that way is a failed life. In the end, he is the only one in his world, because it seems that everyone has a different disc package, and everyone's life program is also different, and it cannot be imposed on others. Everyone has his own way of living, and he cannot do everything he thinks, and he cannot let the earth revolve around Marx all day long. But Marx firmly believes that he is right. A very paranoid stubbornness is a habit that he can live on until it has transformed into a character. After all, Marx has become lonely, so lonely that he can only imagine a friend and face it alone. say. There has always been such a play in his disc bag, imagining that a person exists, like "The Shining", but it is actually a one-man show. But in fact, everyone will be lonely, and it can only be said that Marx is the object of Mary's defense. And their loneliness is so similar, they both love chocolate, they don't have friends, they've been bullied, they love the same cartoons... From her or him, it can be them all at once, because they are the same kind , Destiny finally began to change, in fact, this is not right, it should be said that Destiny can finally start to develop according to the line they hoped. Whoever takes off his clothes has few scars on his body. The letters from Mary and Marx have been interspersed in the film. Each letter is an interpretation of a life. It is Mary's unknown and Marx's interpretation, and the two between Mary and Marx. A period of life, adding up like a lonely person, Mary saw what she looked like when she was young, and became Marx when she was old. But also because of the presence of Marx, Mary did not become Marx, but had a new life and pursued a new life. In other words, she finally took that step of her own. And all this can really be attributed to Marx who has never met. Mary has a question, were you ever bullied as a child? After listening to it, Marx immediately fell into a state of anxiety again. The disc bag was opened, and he was constantly flipped. He found a movie and immediately played it in his mind. Decades later, when Marx thinks about his childhood, he already knows how to solve it, tore open his own scars, and then tell others how to heal. He was Mary's friend, and he should keep his friends from repeating his own path, if not the wrong one, but not the good one, especially how much Mary longed to be able to get there. Max said that although I don't like lies, but in that case, it worked, because I got what I wanted, Mary smiled happily, and the mood ring on her finger also turned red, Max said don't worry, don't laugh I don't laugh on my lips doesn't mean I don't laugh in my heart, but Mary finally smiled on her lips and also in her heart, and the ring representing Mary's mood has been lit up in red. Second, I feel that life is like an electrocardiogram. Only the ups and downs represent life, and when it becomes a flat line, it represents death. Therefore, only a life with ups and downs is a complete life, and a life that is too peaceful is not interesting. After a peak, it will definitely fall. Everyone hopes that two people who have friends will become better, but fate will always make a few malicious jokes. But they all gained something, and they could put some other movies in their lives. Mary walked into the church with her beloved one hand in hand. She could laugh happily every day, and began to specialize in study, enjoy sex, and return to In a real and self life, published academic books, became a best-selling author, and got rid of the birthmark, and more importantly, she threw away the ring at her mother's funeral. Even birthmarks can be changed, what can't be changed? Some things are actually not that bad at first, that is, because they see some signs, they think the worse they get. Of course, if they don’t, they will get better and better, but most people would rather believe that what is bad is not going to believe it. The good ones take the bad for granted, while the good ones are mostly accidental. Throwing away the ring is finally considered throwing away a shackle, and you can really start your own life, and you don't have to use the things passed on by the unexpected. And Marx has fulfilled two of his three wishes. When faced with eating chocolate for a lifetime, I would laugh and think that these things will expire, but in turn, everything has expired, just like Takeshi Kaneshiro's words about keeping fresh Paper will also expire, and feelings will always appear fragile in front of time. I don’t want things that have expired. If Marx can have these things he wants, he should be a happy person. And only the last wish left had to do with Mary. After the orgasm, the sadness begins. Mary and Max became sad again, and even worse, they went back to being alone, and they suddenly felt like they had lost each other again. Friendship is magnified infinitely in the movie, everything can be abandoned, but friendship is impossible. This looks a little ridiculous. But in the eyes of both Mary and Marx, it was not just friendship, but what they wanted most. If you look at it this way, naturally everything can be thrown away. The two who have lived in loneliness for a long time are naturally looking forward to being friends, otherwise Marx would not be able to regard it as his wish. Everyone is a paper cup, which is placed on the ground, and when the wire goes through, they are no longer just a cup, they are the most primitive phone, because there is a connection, so they can communicate, because of communication Become friends, contact more and more people, this quilt will become more and more important, and even can become a switchboard. And if there is only one cup on the ground, we can only say that it is a cup. And, when the line of the cup is broken, it becomes a cup again. Mary's whole life was completely turned upside down. She was like a mother who was drunk and dreaming. Maybe this is a character she has in her bones. When there is no pursuit in a certain life, it will be brought out. Tear up the book is not the same as destroying the previous life. When I received the M button of the printer, it was equivalent to tearing up the previous happiness. She is so dependent on Marx's life that their friendship is confirmed by a real "iron" at this moment. But forcing her husband away has brought life back to its original shape. Before my husband went to New Zealand to work on Brokeback Mountain, if he stayed, I love you, but I love him more. She lost more than she lost, she let happiness slip away before her eyes. It's better to force her husband to find another woman, and even he is no longer as happy as the happiness a man gives him. Of course, if another interpretation is made, if the husband himself likes a man but is with her, it would be just as sad, anyway, only one Mary is lonely again in the end. Marx is still obsessed with his own world, and he has become a habit, just as he still resents throwing cigarette butts. His character, which has lived for decades, is difficult to change. But Mary has really occupied Marx's life for many years. If he told her everything he said, Mary is the most important partner in his life, just like the M key is indispensable when typing, he can't live without Mary. . In Mary, he fulfilled three wishes, he has a life that belongs to him, and his needs are also given by her. Just like after a lover breaks up, it is definitely not only the person who accepts the breakup, but also the person who proposes to break up. After so many years, they still haven't seen each other. All the images of Mary are from Marx's own imagination and patchwork. It seems that Mary sent him a lot of clay, and he shaped the clay into a person through his own imagination, but that person might not be Mary. The better you think, the bigger the gap with reality may be, just like the higher you fly, the more painful it is to fall. He was always immersed in his imaginary life, and when his imaginary friend jumped out of the window, he imagined another friend that was Mary. When reality finally stopped going the way he wanted, he really panicked. Therefore, Marx also began to be lonely again. When Mary sent Marx I' When M SORRY, even if Max wanted to respond with a YOU ARE WELCOME, he could not type without the M key. Moreover, the image of Mary has been torn up by Marx. For so many years, what he believes is what he thinks, and this moment cannot be imagined. If all her previous lies were all lies, the same handwriting would be replaced by I'. M SORRY, may also be the same lie, and only when you really see it can you believe it may be true. In modern life, most of us are chatting in front of the computer. We are used to this way and often say haha, haha, but do the typewriters really laugh? Whether this haha or haha is happy or embarrassed or speechless, there are too many unknown things, and the eyes seem to be blindfolded. Someone once did a survey, and generally, people who hit haha rarely laugh, and most of them hit it habitually. Not to mention Marx, a person who doesn't smile in his mouth doesn't mean he doesn't smile in his heart. When he met a beggar, heard the beggar say SORRY, and saw the real SORRY from the beggar's eyes, Marx always asked others to be the person he wanted, the person he imagined. The autistic Marx, forgive himself, and forgive Mary. But Mary did not forgive herself, and her forgiveness still needs to be given by Marx. She was indulged in the past, unable to extricate herself, drinking and falling asleep, consuming her life day after day, and finally when she had nothing to consume, she couldn't face the future that she didn't know what it would be like, but everything was dark , she lost what she shouldn't have lost, and no one around her can stay by her side. Dad, mom, husband, and Max, all the people who have appeared in the movie seem to have left in an instant. She is more lonely than ever. But fate is actually very interesting. In the past, there was someone who dared not face life like her. Later, she came out and that person remained, but when she went back, that person came out. The movie is full of loneliness all the time, but it also allows some beauty to exist all the time. Life always needs to be faced in order to continue, and it will be more beautiful if it continues to develop. Avoiding can only consume time, and vain consumption is just watching the sunrise and sunset. What is the difference between living and dead? The life you want is the deepest belief, you have always known it, and you must dare to do it. Mary cheered up when she got another letter from Marx, the ending everyone wanted to see. Max gave all his NOBLET to Mary as a signal of forgiveness. When Mary's SORRY made Marx unable to believe, he found a proof. And when he also wanted to prove that he really forgave her, he took out the proof. Because Marx knew Mary, he knew it needed a proof. It's like forgiving someone doesn't have to say YOU forever ARE WELCOME, you can also say NOTHING SERIOUS. Life has given people a lot of paths to take, not necessarily paranoid. Marx turned his paranoid detour, although he didn't know that this letter was important enough to save her friend's life, his best friend, His only friend. At this moment, he saved not only his friends, but also his own dreams. Forgive yourself, Mary can't just watch a friend's dream shatter, because you're important, because you're my friend, because you're the cup on the other end of my line, because it's "us," because of you, and I have myself. Marx finally gave away all his NOBLETs, probably because all of Mary's NOBLETs were fakes made by himself, but maybe more because Marx no longer imagined the life in NOBLET, he envied the disciplined life of everyone in NOBLET, he I think that is the most harmonious. But that's not real life. The reality is another look that he doesn't want, but he insists on it. In the end, he can only live in the harmonious society he fabricated. The real life is not the cartoon in his eyes. Too many expectations may be just fantasy and cannot be realized. Give up those things that are impossible in the first place, and let yourself live a more realistic and happy life. The world is so big, and it will not change because of one person, but people have to change their loneliness and make themselves happy is the key. Marx listed three goals, and he would be happy if those three goals were achieved, so what Marx ultimately pursued was a happy life, sorry for the imperfection in this world, because he is also imperfect. three "I forgive you because you're not perfect, you're not perfect and so am I, no one is perfect, not even the ones throwing things outside the door, when I was young I wanted to be anyone but myself, Dr. Bernard Hasshof said that if I was on an island, then I would have to adapt to living alone, just Coconut and me, he said I had to accept myself, my flaws and my whole, we couldn't choose Our faults, they are part of us but we have to get used to them, but we can choose our friends, and I'm glad I chose you. Everyone's life is a long sidewalk, some neat, some like Just like me, cracked banana peels and cigarette butts, your sidewalks are like mine, but not as many as mine. Hopefully someday your sidewalks and mine will meet and we can share a can of condensed milk. You are my favorite Good friend. You are my only friend." Many people want to be someone else, except themselves, like the birthmark on Mary's face, they are born with it, born with a not very good disc bag, all hope I don't have this, I don't have that, those shortcomings better not exist, we have to adapt to it, some may change, like the birthmark on Mary's face, they will disappear, everything is not so scary, avoid is never change of. And more shortcomings in life need to be filled by others. Everyone is like a puzzle, with its own concave parts and protruding parts. Find the right person to fill others or others to fill yourself, each of us is not perfect, why ask others do something. The happiest thing is that you have entered my life and filled my void, and maybe it will leak, but at least there is one person, it is not empty. And before that, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. The overall color of the movie has always been cool, with only two points in the middle being red. One is that the ring occasionally turns red, and the other is the red thread ball that has always been worn on Max's head. If my ring's manual says that red means happiness, So what Mary sent to Marx was happiness, and Marx always wore it on his head, and because of Mary, he was also very satisfied. In the end, Mary met Marx, but she didn't see him either. Although she saw a real person, Marx was still the Marx in her heart, the Marx in the letter. Marx finally looked up and died in his own home. This is the best ending. Maybe if Marx is still awake, that is the real awakening of the dream, everything will be broken, and the prototype of reality will be returned, and it may not even be able to face it, and even stand up again. When I got to the stool, I went back to my previous panic. The film has a foreshadowing in the middle, where Max says he will iron each letter and put it in a special place. When Mary lifted her head, her tears fell, and the whole ceiling was covered with her writing, with all the letters pasted on it. Until the moment when Max closed his eyes, all he read was her letter, and the whole world was her. Because she is his best friend, his only friend. When he left, he was finally not alone. Four at the moment, I am sitting in front of the computer by myself, typing in a crackling voice. My surroundings are not even like Marx, at least there is a fish and a cat. But I'm really fortunate that my cup has a lot of threads attached. I can get involved with one of them at any time, and I'm not alone. After watching the movie, I thought of "Mr. Van Gogh" by Li Zhi. He sings that whatever you have, we are born alone.
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