When asked this question, we always talked about him/her. I hope my lover is very handsome and manly, generous and personable, chic and loyal to me, and it’s best to have a musical instrument. Have a certain talent, know romance, know how to make me happy. Also, wearing an apron is very charming, cooking is very delicious; doing cleaning and washing clothes can be shared...
If you continue to ask, I think I should be able to talk about three days and three nights. It's just that we know that there will never be such a perfect person in our real life, he can only be a fantasy.
In this view, Kevin is definitely the happiest man. His ideal goddess actually appeared in real life, and was able to manipulate her emotions and personality anytime and anywhere, and transform it into his ideal appearance. At the beginning of the film, I thought it was a romantic love sketch. We can even ignore the reality of tea, rice, oil and salt. It is enough for the hero to kiss the heroine excitedly. After that, watching horror movies in open-air movies, crazy fun in playgrounds, and ambiguous flirting in bars, which do not make us envious. Especially when I heard Harry complain about his wife doing things that he hated from time to time, I really hope that he can copy his ideal perfect look to his wife.
However, in the second half of the film, I couldn't help but shiver. It turned out that it was not perfect, but the gap between it and my dream was getting bigger and bigger. Ruby's shortcomings began to show slowly, and Kevin mastered the control of her function, and he began to change Ruby in the direction he wanted. Can't stand the night without her, so let her stay there for a moment, even when answering the phone; can't stand her emotional out of control, so let her have only happy emotions; can't stand her happy all the time, so finally let her return to Ruby , But the real Ruby flirts with other men. All Ruby's changes can't be his ideal perfect appearance. In the end, he enjoys control and self-satisfaction, and everything is over. He allowed Ruby to start a new life, as if he had never appeared in his novels.
The video is here, I should be relieved. Life returns to its original position, Ruby is still Ruby, and Kevin is still an ordinary novelist. However, Kevin decided to write all this in his novel. This time, Ruby is just a character in the book.
At this moment, the perfect dream lover in my mind is getting farther and farther away from me, replaced by the boyfriend in real life who I often complain about and countless shortcomings. I once asked him what your ideal girlfriend looks like, and the answer is that it is definitely not mine. I said that I am too, and then we laughed at each other. It turns out that you are not my type and I am not your food. Only at that moment did I know that love is inherently unspeakable, he has no logic and reason, it only exists in every second between me and you.
We can never have the abilities of Kevin in the film, and we can never have a person who is exactly the same as our ideals. However, the person who has been with you all the time, love has unknowingly made each other's ideal fit, not because you are perfect, but I love you, the imperfect you.
I love you as you are at the very beginning, just like at the end of the film, on the sunny meadow, Kevin meets the real Ruby. I am willing to imagine the happy ending of the story, although it is still indispensable for cumbersome quarrels, but love is like , What can move my heart more than the original you?
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