Love and Separation

Robb 2021-12-17 08:01:17

I have always believed that the spiritual world of writers is different from ordinary people, and they are often indulged in their own world. At the same time, I also think that every character written by a writer always has his own shadow.
In the film, because of a dream, the actor inspires creative inspiration, ruby. The heroine in the book is called Ruby. Then, a series of unbelievable things happened. From the initial excitement to the final collapse, the actor changed his original life because of the people in the book.
In fact, ruby ​​was originally part of Calvin’s personality. Calvin described a part of his personality as an independent personality, and then observed to narcissistic, and because this is part of his personality, this part is not allowed subconsciously. It's beyond my control, so I keep revising, revising, and balancing with other personalities.
But in the role of love identity, Calvin hopes that the object of love is independent and free at the conscious level, so he regrets it after the modification, and then restores her to the original state. This creates a conflict and contradiction between consciousness and subconsciousness. He is a person who yearns for attention and care and is understood to be able to get along with others on an equal footing, but his lifestyle is too closed and he is unwilling to let anyone enter the depths of his heart. He has few friends and basically does not get together. He has only one brother. I often go to see a psychiatrist. Just like Lila said, "The only person you want in love is yourself. So I make you perfect." Finally, the conflict between yourself and some of your personalities developed to a certain degree, and finally met frankly, but they are not equal dialogues. But to punish that part of the personality, tell her that you are mine, you must be controlled by me, and you must listen to me. In a conflict between oneself and oneself, no one else will get hurt.
After the war, with that part of the personality unable to merge, Calvin completely split. In accordance with the homework and requirements assigned by the psychologist, he wrote the entire splitting process into a novel.

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  • Taryn 2022-03-30 09:01:04

    It's a waste of a good subject, but it's a very realistic topic. Do you love her or what you think she is? Paul Dano can't explain it

  • Clare 2022-03-29 09:01:03

    Who doesn't have a goddess in their heart?

Ruby Sparks quotes

  • Calvin Weir-Fields: This is the true and impossible story of my very great love. In the hope that she will not read this and reproach me, I have withheld many telling details: her name, the particulars of her birth and upbringing, and any identifying scars or birth marks. All the same, I cannot help but write this for her, to tell her "I'm sorry for every word I wrote to change you, I'm sorry for so many things. I couldn't see you when you were here and, now that you're gone, I see you everywhere." One may read this and think it's magic, but falling in love is an act of magic, so is writing. It was once said of Catcher In The Rye, "That rare miracle of fiction has again come to pass: a human being has been created out of ink, paper and the imagination." I am no J.D. Salinger, but I have witnessed a rare miracle. Any writer can attest: in the luckiest, happiest state, the words are not coming from you, but through you. She came to me wholly herself, I was just lucky enough to be there to catch her.

  • Ruby Sparks: What's your dog's name?

    Calvin Weir-Fields: Uh, Scotty. I named him for F. Scott Fitzgerald.

    Ruby Sparks: Isn't that disrespectful?

    Calvin Weir-Fields: What?

    Ruby Sparks: Naming your dog after him? It's a little disrespectful. Think about it. You're a novelist. You think this guy's the greatest. So you name your dog after him to cut him down to size. This way, you can put him on a leash... and yell "Bad Scotty" and feel all superior because you pee inside. Kill your idols, man. I'm all for it.