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The sun poured down on California's Monterey Peninsula, leaving no trace of haze . Their hair sometimes flutters up, which is more free than anyone described, and there is a strong independence that is about to break through the ground hidden in their bones.
To give a symbol of female friendship, I think it's the lotus . Lotus is a perennial aquatic herb with long and thick underground stems. The flowering period is from June to September with various colors. The whole body is a treasure, edible and medicinal. Zhou Dunyi said in "Love the Lotus" that the lotus "emerges from the mud without being stained, and washes cleanly without being a demon" . Female friendship is like the lotus growing in the mud, maintaining its own character and independence, and prospering in summer. And beautiful, clean and strong.
"Zuo Zhuan" has "the sound of the phoenix, which means that the phoenix is flying, and the phoenix is flying." Modern women need good blessings, but they don't need a married life that is imposed on happiness.
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Monterey, where the sea and the sky are the same color, at night, there seems to be a bit of the artistic conception that Zhang Ruoxu wrote "the bright moon on the sea grows with tides" .
It was after watching the first season of "Big Little Lies" that I realized that this place is so beautiful, it seems like heaven. Co-starring Reese Witherspoon, Nicole Kidman, Shailene Woodley and Laura Dern, Big Little Lies focuses on women's married lives. I saw different degrees of dark reality in it, such as cheating, domestic violence, and rape.
Compared with married life, many young people nowadays often talk about "safety without marriage and childbirth". Not impossible. There may be a pessimistic tendency, but it just shows the pain that men bring to women in their marriage and love life in today's society. Yesterday, I saw a data analysis on the soaring divorce rate of middle-aged and elderly people in China. Many women who have worked silently for the family for most of their lives choose to get out of marriage and look for other possibilities. In one case, the man was a university professor, and the woman bore children for him and became a housewife. Times have changed, but he despised her for not having a common language with him. Can't comment on anything, just silent in my heart.
Affected by the great era, each generation has different views on marriage. "Divorce" has never been a word of honor. It is more like a torture tool that places women on a pillar of shame. Men are the perpetrators, and some women choose to be accomplices. The relationship between women has long been demonized by society and can fight for men. They don't know something, there are many women who are moonlight and independent.
Why do you say: "A perfect life is a perfect lie"?
I am equally suspicious.
"A perfect life is a perfect lie"?
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