In recent years, there has been more and more discussions about housewives, and people seem to be slowly paying attention to the difficulties of housewives' lives and the responsibilities they bear. Housewives may not be as outsiders imagine, partying and playing games every day and enjoying life. They have their own jobs and their own troubles. Husbands, children, family is everything to them. If they meet a good husband, like Medi in the play, although they don't have to worry about husband and wife issues, her spiritual world is very empty. I think part of the reason why Medi is in trouble and cheating with theater directors is because her life is really boring. Medi herself has also said that the children are growing up slowly and are no longer dependent on herself as they used to. She does not know what to do in her future life and where the value of life is. This also explains why she controls her children. Desire is so strong, because this is really all she has. After Celes helped her win the lawsuit, Medi said sincerely that I want more, she wanted more things that would bring a sense of accomplishment and make herself feel alive. I don't know if all housewives feel this way, but it's a really grueling job.
And Celes is another situation - if they meet a bad husband. The drama portrays the mental journey of victims of domestic violence very well. We often wonder why victims of domestic violence do not actively seek help. Most of the explanations are that they feel ashamed and worry that they will be blamed after exposure. Celes shows us the deeper reason - the victim doesn't feel like she's being abused. Of course, Celes' situation is special, but it also tells us that Stockholm syndrome exists in domestic violence. Celes has a high level of education, has had her own career, and has the constant guidance and support of a psychiatrist. Under such circumstances, it took her a season to admit and accept that she was domestic violence, not to mention those in life. What about people who don't have this support? How to help these victims is really a question worth pondering.
Finally, on the question of children's education. A parent's behavior certainly has a crucial impact on a child, but it's really hard to say in which direction. Perry's violent tendencies make Matt bully others at school, but his other son Josh doesn't; Ambella's mother is so strong, but the little girl herself is sensitive and weak; Medi is so controlling on her daughter, but her two daughters One is more rebellious than the other. The more positive energy is Ziggy. Although his family background is the worst among the five, he is indeed the most serious child, probably because his mother has been influencing him with love.
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