Saw episode 5, it was a great episode.
The part between Celeste and the psychiatrist is amazing, I really want to be treated by this doctor.
Celeste did not confess to the doctors that they resorted to some literal pretense to justify violence and manipulation in the marriage. The doctor said nothing but asked "Why did you come alone today (and not just once)". Celeste used them to make an appointment for couples counseling and now that she is the only one who wants to escape, the doctor has to say "he's hurting you".
Very simple fact, but also very cruel. Celeste didn't admit it, and couldn't care less about escaping, and immediately sat down and insisted that it was a fight. Anyone who has seen it knows that her beautiful body has no talent for violence at all.
She may have a tendency to fight back mentally, but in terms of physical strength, there is no doubt that she is at a disadvantage. Why does she go to marriage counseling for two people alone, because she is not counseling, she is asking for help. The person who should be treated is not her, but the violent criminal.
She was so beautiful, yet she suffered so cruelly. Violent criminal was right, she deserved better because he knew he was a liar and he didn't deserve her at all.
Celeste was trapped in this lie. She was scared, angry, and possibly remorseful, aggrieved, confused, and even a little glad that they didn't fight in front of the child at least. All this is really too complicated.
If only she hadn't given up her career, she would use her talent to kill the Quartet.
She couldn't accept this ending, she shouldn't have been treated like this, so she vehemently denied that she was living such a huge lie.
It wasn't until the fear of death grabbed her that Celeste lowered the defensive shield of shame slightly. I didn't allow myself to live well, I didn't see through his scam, I couldn't stop this from going on, I didn't take myself well, I was ashamed, I was vulnerable and I needed help.
Another question is, why didn't these victims tell the whole truth? What's wrong with those thoughts that can't be confided to those closest to them?
Madeline is a person who talks about everything. She often makes my head buzzing with her twitter. Every time I watch her scenes, I miss her eldest daughter... And Jane is a more restrained person. However, Madeline and Jane is equally reserved, which shows that this has little to do with personal conversation style.
Celeste was afraid to tell her friends about the violence under her marriage, Madeline was afraid to tell her friends about her affair, and Jane was afraid to tell her friends about her revenge plan because they all knew the unreasonableness, and they accepted it Unreasonable, or put up with this unreasonable.
What matters is not what you talk about, but what you don't talk about.
The unspeakable feeling is the most shameful experience. Shame is said to be the gatekeeper of the conscience, so it is also the fence of the ego. There's nothing wrong with breaking yourself a little, fix it and it'll be better.
If one day, we can open our mouths and say something, maybe we can be saved.
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