I watched the two seasons together, and I finished it in two days. Some people said that the second season was very depressing. In fact, I personally think that the first season has been paving the way, and the second season only revealed the theme of the show, showing a seemingly calm Underwater surging under the sea. The most distressing thing is Bonnie. She spent her childhood being scolded and beaten by her mother. Later, she grew up to be a versatile yoga teacher. She loves and cares a lot, maybe because she has been abused before and lacks fatherly love, so she treats her daughter more tenderly and lovingly. Seeing Perry's violence against Celeste was like seeing a mother's hatred, so much so that she angrily pushed him away. As for the other half, Nathan, he doesn't seem to be much mature and considerate in the second marriage, and he is still naive in his work. He can't get close to Bonnie's heart, but instead wants to invite Ed (he thinks Ed understands women's minds better) and Bonnie's parents. (Mother is violent, father is absent) Get rid of her. Bonnie revealed that in order to prove to her mother that she was worthy of being loved, she had found someone she didn't love to marry casually before her mother's hospital bed. Although Bonnie has been living in the shadow of being beaten and scolded by her mother, she strives to become a strong, loving, and righteous person. Although she has many thoughts of suffocating her mother in her mind, she picks up the pillow and lies with her mother. We went to bed together, and finally said, "It takes my whole life to say l love you. My mother was forgiven, but the hurt accompanies my whole life, like a shadow." Bonnie's mother is somewhat like our own parents, and her admiration and encouragement for her child is far less than blowing and controlling. Even now, we are parents ourselves, and we still place all kinds of hopes and demands on our child, and try our best to make her what we are all about. The appearance of hope can be used to show off, not herself. We give the child conditional love, and let the child strive to prove that he is worthy of being loved, to please, to agree, to flatter, instead of spending energy on developing himself ideas to enrich your heart above. I like the dialogue between Team America and his niece on Gifted (gifted girl): What is God , Everyone has their own understanding, and adults should not deprive children of the opportunity to seek and discover. Give the child free space, the right to choose, and the opportunity to question to grow up slowly. I believe that she will grow into the person in her heart. What parents have to do is to create an environment for their children and provide them with choices. The road ahead is still up to you. . In contrast, Perry in the show is a stark contrast to Bonnie. Although he looks handsome, has a successful career, and has a happy family, he is insecure, suspicious, and controlling, and is obviously deeply influenced by his mother. The mother played by Aunt Mei is acerbic and meticulous. She always thinks that the son she has raised is a kind and gentle person, and does not believe that he is a perpetrator and a rapist. Perry once revealed to Celeste that her mother blamed him for the death of the eldest son and beat him. , let his childhood be burdened with guilt, the mother may just want to vent his emotions, and the child may think that he is guilty and does not deserve good things. Even if Celeste gave up his career as a lawyer for him and raised a pair of sons at home full-time, Perry always Afraid that she will not love him and leave her. Guilt-ridden children feel guilty that they don't deserve good things, no matter how good they are. Even if you get it, you will live in the fear of losing it. As a mother, how do you treat your child? Bonnie's mother sees her child as a machine and must do what she wants, otherwise she will be beaten and scolded, making her feel useless and unworthy of love; Perry's mother blames him for the death of her eldest son, Made him feel guilty; Maddie's father cheated, making her feel that marriage was untrustworthy, so the first marriage failed, and the second time she found Ed like her father... Parents' words and deeds have invisibly affected the child's life . How did the new generation of parents behave? Bonnie is full of love and encouragement for her daughter, Perry accompanies her children at home, Celeste strives to show the good side of life, Maddie respects her daughter's decision not to go to college, Jane is convinced of her son... Maddie lost control at school and said: We Tell the child: It will be fine. It's a lie. There will always be unpleasant things in life, how can it be good? We always tell our children that the prince and princess will live a happy life in our stories, but in reality their safety in school is not well guaranteed. How can we teach our children? Ziggy said that adults lie sometimes to make children want to It is easy to accept. I think that the cruelty of reality is something that every adult must face. There is no need to remind the child when he is very young. When the child is young, try to sow light and beauty in their hearts, and teach her kindness and optimism. Positive energy will be their core strength against all wind and rain in the future. It will be fine. A lie, but also a proverb.
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