regret

Lucie 2022-12-11 18:24:48

When I watched this film, I was in a bad mood, and the huge impact made me doubt myself again. I was afraid that I would go into trouble. However, the dramatic thing was that I watched this "Danish Girl", and it would be strange if I didn't go into trouble. When I was in a stable mood, I watched "Carol", and it took 8 hours to finish it. I really fell asleep twice in the middle. The plot did not attract me too much. I only vaguely felt the mood of the two protagonists towards love. Change, the unswerving one will inevitably bow his head in front of reality, because in addition to love, there are family, property and past experiences that build their own charm. The one who keeps exploring is becoming more and more clear about his pursuit, but he is becoming more and more determined, perhaps because he has no influence from the past.
However, "The Danish Girl" gave me the opposite feeling. It was a hint, a reminder, and aroused a desire. Just like Aina can't resist women's clothing, maybe everyone has secrets, but they can't be very good. The desire to control, but this desire cannot be mentioned in normal life, but it is when Aina tries to hide it and inevitably learns the movements of women. I only realize women in the scene where he imitates a prostitute The narcissism of women, different from the self-satisfaction of men's words, the attachment of women to their own bodies is inexhaustible, but it has formed its characteristic, that is, a sense of femininity, even from the actions of the Danish women who buy fish. Within half an hour of entering the play, I felt that I was being led by Aina's unspeakable secrets, fully enjoying the excitement brought by the secrets, and I really could not see the environment I was in and seemed to enter a new secret realm. . However, when I was a child, I was very scared, as if I almost lost my soul. I can't stay in the picture of Aina indulging in that swamp, tree and snow, being Lily. I want to see Aina more, even if he's pale as a walking dead. I can't imagine that the so-called little beast in my heart was suddenly hit with powerful hormones, broke through my heart and completely devoured myself, who had lived for decades. After the madness, it can't last for a long time, so dying quickly is only a matter of time. Could be the best ending.
The recoil comes from Gerda, which is a kind of rational deconstruction, but what it shows here is regret. Gerda didn't expect his joke to be too big, and the released Lily no longer belongs to her. When she prayed for Lily to wake up After a while, her husband was rejected. It felt as if she killed her lover herself. At the end of the story, Gerda still deeply loves Aina, but she loves the male side of Aina. It represents all interpretations of the word husband, but I can only recall that everything she gave Lily deconstructed Aina's past, deconstructed Aina's humanity, and deconstructed Aina's life, so this Isn't it right, you lost yourself, and I lost my lover, so how can I not regret it?
Therefore, perhaps it is because there is a little devil in his heart that he cannot see God.

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The Danish Girl quotes

  • Dr. Hexler: Tell me about Lili... Where did she come from?

    Einar Wegener: Inside of me.

  • Gerda Wegener: It's hard for a man to be looked at by a woman. Women are used to it, of course, but for a man to submit to a woman's gaze - it's unsettling. Although I believe there's some pleasure to be had from it, once you yield.