The choice between material things and being loved

Lukas 2022-04-19 09:01:32

This is the third time I've watched this movie. I suddenly remembered the plot of this movie because of something last night, so I went back to watch it.
In jen, I see a lot of girls' shadows, including my own. When we were young, we couldn't help comparing ourselves to others. We wanted to live better than others. We wanted to have decent jobs. Income, a huge cloakroom, a bunch of famous brands, beautiful, hot, has a super handsome and famous boyfriend, rides a luxury car, lives in a luxury house, attends all kinds of fashion parties, you can swipe brand names to satisfy shopping without looking at the amount want. We are constantly working towards these goals, but we never see clearly what we have lost for these vanity and materialistic things. We may abandon our health for the sake of a high salary and a good job, we may do immoral things for the purpose we want to achieve, and we may abandon the things we think are unimportant for our illusory dream, even family and friendship. But when we finally reach that dream state of life, when we are finally able to satisfy our material desires, will we become that lonely man living in an empty house?
People are always greedy. We have got it, and we want to get a little more. Those who are not satisfied will never be happy, and their hearts will never be redeemed. Because they are not satisfied, after material satisfaction, she will pursue what she once was. Abandoned emotions, but the past cannot be found after all, so she is still in pain, because she is not satisfied, no matter what she gets, she wants more.
Facing the fork in life, we will always be confused, just like the judgment of the red mansion, our hearts are higher than the sky, and our lives are thinner than paper. We yearn for the colorful world outside, and we are unwilling to stay for that ordinary but outstanding man. In this small place, no matter how much he loves you, you always see his love as humble, you can no longer find the feeling of being in love, what fills your heart is that kind of material greed, you will I feel that wearing Chanel and carrying Hermes is more than his hobby. However, no matter what it is, it will be out of season. When one day you finally guard a bunch of famous brands and live a life that others think is very luxurious, but Is it more sad to find that there is no one around you who truly loves you?
I feel so sad that I can't learn how to love anymore. When love has to pay a lot of external conditions, I feel very tired and tired in my heart. Am I no longer worthy of love?
How can love?

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  • Hannah 2022-03-23 09:01:30

    Growing up to be a bad woman/After watching this movie five years later, I have a lot of different insights, and the rating has also changed from three stars to four stars. Among the many similar time-travel romance dramas, this film did not become a conventional ending of a princess fighting against evil forces and finally harvesting the love of a prince. Instead, the thirteen-year-old girl discovered the "evil" in the adult world, and became "evil" herself. The confession with the hero does not have a fairy tale ending, but a responsibility and blessing

  • Mark 2022-03-22 09:01:26

    If one day you grow up and find yourself so mean, are you still the same self? Everything is changing and nothing is impossible.

13 Going on 30 quotes

  • Matt: Jenna, what are you... Why are you here?

    Jenna: Matty, I told you - something really weird is happening. Yesterday was my 13th birthday and then, and then today I woke up and I'm this, and you, I mean - you're that! You get it?

    Matt: [long pause] Are you high? You been smoking pot? Doing X? Fallen into a K-Hole? You doing drugs?

  • Jenna: What happened?

    Matt: I don't know. I can pretty much peg it to your 13th birthday party, when you were in the closet playing that game. Spin the Rapist?

    Jenna: Seven Minutes in Heaven.