live at the moment is the best choice

Maxwell 2022-04-19 09:01:32

I saw some clips and recommendations a long time ago, and today I finally have the opportunity to watch this film. Although this film was made relatively early, some things will never be out of date, and I am still very moved. Maybe every girl longed to grow up when she was a child, longed for time to pass faster, and looked forward to her future appearance. I also sneaked through my mother's high heels, used my mother's lipstick, and imagined that one day I would become a young and fashionable urban white-collar worker, with a decent job, exquisite makeup, wearing an OL suit, and walking confidently in high heels. On the street, and then there is a guy living in a fancy little apartment, living his own petty bourgeoisie life, wow, this is my ideal life, if tomorrow I wake up like this, I don't have to study, I don't have to stay in school , to accept such an ordinary and not beautiful self. This is what I thought when I was in junior high school, but now that I am in college, I want to go back to junior high school, even elementary school. . However, I know that I can't go back to the past like the heroine in a dream of thirty or the hero of a time traveler. This violates the laws of nature, and life itself is full of regrets!

The place where this film touched my tears was that Matt was getting married, the heroine went to him and told him "I love you", but it was too late, as Matt said, he had already made a choice, although He also likes the heroine, but that doesn't change anything. The heroine could only hold the gift that Matt gave her before and leave silently in tears. At this moment, she wished she could go back to the past. But fortunately this is a comedy, and in the end the hero and heroine live happily together.

However, our life is not like this, we are making choices all the time, and the future we look forward to is not the result of the choices we make now? Any small decision can change the direction of the future, so pay attention to every choice you make now. I also thought about going with the flow and just living with it, but I know that I need to see what I really want in my heart, otherwise, making a decision that goes against my heart will make me regret it for the rest of my life. More importantly, I don't want to go to the unreachable future now, because the future is never as good or bad as I imagined, nothing can be predicted, and I don't want to go back to the past to change anything, because at this moment I stand Here, there will always be regrets. It created my present. Going back to the past, there will still be other regrets and troubles. The future depends on who I am now. The harder I work, the luckier I am. Nothing can replace the happiness at the moment. , what matters is present. Looking forward to the future and indulging in the past, it is better to cherish the moment, live in the present, follow your inner choices, and cherish your family and friends. Only then will the future be worth looking forward to and full of unexpected surprises. Maybe this is life!

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13 Going on 30 quotes

  • Pete Hansen: [Pete suddenly grabs her, and starts kissing her] What's wrong, Pookie?

    Jenna: [disgusted] Pookie? Uh... Pukie! You're married!

  • Lucy: [at a big party] Speaking of disasters, what is she doing here?

    Jenna: Who?

    Lucy: Sparkle's editor-in-chief, Trish Sackett. Twelve o'clock and headed our way.

    Trish Sackett: [smug] Hi, girls. Our J. Lo issue is selling like hotcakes. How's yours doing?

    Lucy: [sarcastic] My God, are things so bad you had to come to our party to eat free food? Put some crab in your purse for later.

    Trish Sackett: You might want to keep some of that biting wit for your magazine. Or you could change the name "Poise" to something more appropriate, like Poison, or Pitiful, whatever's more Pathetic.

    Jenna: You know what? You are rude, and mean, and sloppy, and frizzy -- and I don't like you at all.