patience

Sarai 2022-01-03 08:02:01

The plot is very stable, and the only impulse may be the short marriage between Anna and J. You can say that the literary film is unrealistic, but you cannot deny its authenticity. There are too many emotions that will resonate. Many entanglements know no borders.

Perhaps the obstacle on the clear line is that Anna's wayward violation of the visa deadline, was refused by the ban, and could no longer set foot on the land of the United States. Many people are willful in the process of love. Many feelings are cultivated to be fruitful because of this willfulness. The less optimistic others are, the more they want to be together. Many feelings are also disillusioned because of this willfulness. If Anna went home obediently for vacation that time, would the relationship with J go smoothly?

can you? Probably not, love is a superstition of the right time and place.

They are obsessed with each other, entangled in thoughts, and make choices in entanglement. Everyone has compromises and sacrifices, but they are not happy. Gains and losses are calculated in the mind, and often have nothing to do with money.

There are countless possibilities in life, but it is fair that everyone can only make one choice at a time. After the experience, you may be able to say no regrets chicly, and you may not be able to ignore the unwillingness in your heart and only you know. How to balance, how can we do it willingly and accept it willingly. This is the practice of a person's life.

Maybe there is no entanglement for some people, or because they have a moth to extinguish the fire, or because they have been materially satisfied, or because they are too talented to understand the mystery of life, or because they have experienced the ups and downs of whoever After gaining and losing, understand the trade-offs and balance. But this kind of entanglement is the norm among the idiotic men and women who are rolling in the dust. Otherwise, how could there be so many leftover men and women, because of a mistake in judgment in the past, they missed the best spouse and time. Like dried seeds swaying in the rain, or landing one day, but the fruit that bears is not sweet to eat.

When J put on the bracelet with patience engraved on Anna, he was moved and said something very good in his heart. At this time, I understood patience as patience. Tolerate borders, tolerate distance, to endure the suffering of lovesickness.

After Anna and J separated, Anna continued to wear this bracelet, perhaps at this time patience can be translated into patience. You have a certainty about this person, you know that when you miss him, he also misses you; when you long for him, he has the same desire for you; when you want to come back, there is always you Even if someone occupies a position, I will give you a place. What you need is to wait patiently and keep trying. However, in the face of friction and grievances, there were constant quarrels, loss and disappointment enveloped the two people, and the happiness was no longer. Two people can't find a proper place in each other's lives, love can't fill life, and the meaning of life is not just someone's lover.

At the end of the movie, Anna finally got her visa. The spare tire Sam didn't cry this time, and left with the cardboard box coldly, seemingly tough, but it made me feel embarrassed. The first time I was dumped, the crying face made people feel distressed. Being asked to go out again, no matter how hard you are in your heart and how tough your posture is, you can't feel calm.

When Anna and J took a bath together, the bracelet reappeared, and the past scenes flashed in the embrace. Those were precious memories. It was also relying on these memories and feelings that they walked together again. Life seemed to be the same as the original plan. Anna returned to the United States again. It seemed that she had just detoured and met one or two passers-by, but some things could no longer be perfectly connected. In the process, enthusiasm was consumed, quarrels left scars in each other's hearts, and there was also a sense of self-identity that could not be satisfied in real life.

At the beginning, Anna had read a piece of text written by herself to J. After watching the whole movie, she found it very meaningful. "I thought I knew it well, but in fact it was not. What I saw was only the surface. I didn't realize that the suppressed and precious desire in him was eager to move around. I didn't realize that the inner desire is sometimes more important than the whole, the concept of'whole'. It is often impossible to reach, because the whole you think is the divided part. What is in the middle is unknown in the past and is still unknown. Only a piece of bloody you and me."

In this open-ended In the ending, how to interpret patience, whether it can be understood as tolerance, the tacit understanding that two people who want to be together for a long time need most.

In many cases, we have the courage to choose, but not the endurance and ability to endure.

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  • Anna: [on the phone with Jacob] I just have to say one thing and it's really important that you just listen to me. I just... It doesn't feel like this, this thing is gonna go away, it's always there. I can't... I can't get on with my life.

  • Anna: It's someone that is very close to me and he's been quite an inspiration in my life. And i almost through my writing i wanted to give something back.

    Liz: Yeah, when i was reading it just made me think about the fact when i was working in NY, my husband was in LA, so he was driving across country. So, on the way over he would take all these pictures of himself and the dog at varies places. So, I sent photos of me and we got all them together and they were all the moment and time being separate, but yet we were together on these photographs.

    Anna: Yeah, that's the challenge!

    Liz: Yeah, it's hard. It made me missing more...