There is such a single mother who has been divorced twice and lives alone with her 8-year-old eldest son, 6-year-old second daughter, and 10-month-old daughter. She looks for job opportunities everywhere, but because she has no professional academic background And hit the wall; she was hit by a car, and the perpetrators used her current situation as an excuse to confuse her in court, portraying her as a porcelain toucher who wanted to take this opportunity to make a fortune; worse, she She still owes $17,000 in government deposits, and she has only $76 in the bank. At this moment, three meals a day have become a huge problem. In the face of the child who is waiting to be fed, the disfigured self ravaged by marriage, and all the injustice and distrust in life, she decided not to continue to accept it. At the mercy of fate, but bravely and confidently took the first step to never compromise on life. Then, with the firm determination to survive, she sought a job in a law firm where she was suing, and with her work attitude of studying hard, facing difficulties and going all out, she won the trust of her boss and the respect of her clients step by step. In the end, together with the boss, the compensation amount was as high as 3. 300 million yuan, the environmental pollution infringement compensation case involving as many as 643 people, has become a winner in life. Over a dozen months of hard work, she turned the amount in her bank account from $76 to $2 million. Such stories are not just inspiring movie plots, but are based on moving events that happened in real life. Therefore, the movie "Never Compromise" gives us unprecedented shocking power. At the same time, the uncompromising attitude towards life shown in the movie makes female compatriots face family, work, and self. When there is subversive thinking. [Expression of love is not self-sacrifice] The heroine Irene in the film "Never Compromise" is a single mother with three children who has been divorced twice. She used to be a beauty queen, and she also had her own ideals and pursuits, but because of premature marriage and children, all her thoughts were stranded, and she could only revolve around the family every day. What's even more unfortunate is that she met unkind people twice in a row, and in the end she was forced to choose a divorce and bear the burden of raising three children alone. What the article said at the beginning was the heavy price she paid for her previous wrong choice. As a woman who is also married and has children, I empathize with Erin's situation in the first half of the film. It may be that most women's nature values family more, especially after they have children, they are more willing to unconditionally give up their personal pursuits and put their husbands and children in the first place in life. Looking back on the two years when I took care of my children full-time before, although I had the joy of becoming a new mother, it was more of the exhaustion of overdrafting myself. At that time, the scales of life were almost completely dumped on children, and the situation of intimacy and self-relationship was miserable. As a result, not only did the parent-child relationship fail, but other relationships were a mess. The hardships and pains of this may only be experienced by those who have come here. Facts have proved that whether it is Irene who has entered a blind marriage in the movie, or we who are trapped in family life in real life, catering to marriage and family at the cost of giving up ourselves will inevitably cause serious imbalances in the body and mind and the family. Internal conflicts are intensifying day by day. There is nothing wrong with loving our family, nor is it wrong with trying to maintain our marriage, but there are many ways to express love, and it is not only by sacrificing ourselves that this kind of love can be delivered. Although self-sacrificing love may seem great, it goes against human nature and against the laws of nature. Therefore, this kind of love has great side effects. The lover usually feels that he has worked hard and is full of sadness and grievances. Once his love does not get the expected response, his mood will be extremely lost, and his sense of self-worth will plummet; In the face of a love that is shrouded in shadow, it is usually overwhelming, difficult to digest, and want to escape take off. 【Love yourself is the foundation of loving everything】 Although Irene, who suffered a failed marriage, is in a difficult situation, she is more sober, more conscious, and more powerful than ever. Desperately, she took advantage of the sympathy of lawyer Max Rui for her, and quickly sought a job in a law firm for herself. She knows that at this moment, nothing is important, survival is the first, she must work hard to support her family. At this time, Irene's life focus shifted to the work she depends on, because she understands that she wants to keep children from living in a house where cockroaches are bigger than cats, and wants to truly make her life blossom and bear fruit. She must sacrifice the time spent with her children and the opportunity to be intimate with her lover, seize the current focus of life, and find a breakthrough for self-development. Therefore, in the face of her child's angry complaints and her boyfriend's resignation, she never wavered in her belief in hard work. She thinks she can do more for her children now than ever before, and it's disrespectful to her to keep her boyfriend at the cost of resigning. Yes, as mothers, we should do our best to accompany our children, because children really need mothers when they are young, and mothers are an important source of all their security; When they are vulnerable, they are like children who have not grown up, and the warm harbor of their wives is a good medicine for them to regain confidence in life. As women, we are so important to our family and married life that we are constantly needed, day after day, year after year. In the end, our ego needs to be ruthlessly devoured by the years, and we have forgotten who we are. As Irene said, before marriage, she was Miss Wedzette, a beauty queen, thinking that she would have a bright future, that she would make a difference and prove that she was important. But after getting stuck in marriage, all the good thoughts in the past seem like daydreams. Are marriage and family really the culprit that makes you feel so embarrassed? I don’t think marriage and family should be blamed for this, because some women are also married and have children, but they still take priority and live a wonderful life. So, in the final analysis, the problem lies in our attitude towards self, marriage and family. I always believe that a person who loves himself enough has the ability to manage a good marriage and family. Because people who love themselves enough will definitely deal with the relationship with themselves first, so that the body and mind can be harmonious, full of energy and vitality. When the self reaches abundance, the energy of love will naturally flow in the heart, and such energy is what marriage and family really need. So, how can you send a flow of love to others when your own spiritual battery is still empty? Only by achieving a good self can we achieve a good family and marriage. 【Love can make you invincible and invincible】 With such a correct direction, the next step is to love yourself well, and then love your family well, and love your work well. After choosing the right direction in life, Erin began to slowly reverse the situation of her life. It can be said that she can achieve success in her career and finally gain the understanding and support of her children and her boyfriend, thanks to the power of love. In the past, Irene was a spinning top that revolved around marriage and family. Now, because of this powerful energy of love, she has become a needle in the sea, and all the turmoil in the outside world cannot disturb her mind. She is like this in her family and even more so in her career. She doesn't care what the so-called good employee standards are, she only does what she thinks is really important and right. When her boss suggested her sexy dress, she didn't take it because she wanted to please herself, not others. When the boss fired her indiscriminately because she left the post without permission, she left angrily without adding an explanation until the boss finally figured out the truth and asked her to come back in person. When a partner makes indiscriminate comments on the archives she has compiled, she can tell all the client details in one breath, turning herself into a living information extractor, with a degree of care that makes all the professionals in the room dumbfounded . When the court required all 643 plaintiffs to sign the authorization before the trial could proceed normally, she drove from house to house to work for the remaining 150 copies, and ran for days and nights until she finally collected all the plaintiffs' authorization documents. Irene is not a professional law student, but why can she become the soul of winning such a large-scale environmental compensation tort lawsuit, leaving those experienced partners with strong professional backgrounds far behind and amazed? The Parchment provides our best answer in chapter two: I welcome today with all my love. Because this is the biggest secret of all success. Strength can split a shield and even destroy a life, but only love has the unparalleled power to open people's hearts. Until I mastered the art of love, I was just a nobody in the mall. I want to make love my greatest weapon, no one can resist its power. It is this invincible and unfailing power of love that has helped Erin succeed. Conclusion:
The self-awakening of female consciousness has always been the topic of discussion in many film and television literature works, whether it is Francesca, who was awakened by an extramarital affair in "Long Dreams of the Covered Bridge", or the three men who dare to face up to and break through the cage of life in "Every Moment". A new woman, or Karen in "Out of Africa" who has the courage to pursue the true nature of life, both from different angles and levels, vividly demonstrate the bravery and fearlessness of women on the road of self-growth. The charm of the film "Never Compromise" is that it more vividly and concretely shows the real dilemma that modern women generally face, and gives us the most powerful guiding ideology to break through this real dilemma. After watching this movie, please remember: you are a mother and a wife, but you are yourself.
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