In the eyes of many people, a love should start with love, then sex; but this movie starts with sex in a way that I have never seen, and then love.
So what does love have to do with sex? This movie clearly tells us. That part of Jack panting, full of tension, and very restless inwardly shouting: "I love you!" is really wonderful, I can sleep with you so many times in peace, but I can't be in peace with you. you say i love you. This perfectly interprets the sanctity of love. When you plan to say the words I love you, you must think for a long time and come from your heart. The kind of warmth and companionship that you want to take care of and hold in your hand is the way to go. The shape of love.
Today's fast-food romance, in my opinion, is not love, but merely sexual attraction, and at the same time, this behavior also reflects our slowly increasing degree of sexual openness. There is a sentence in the comment area, "The degree of sexual openness reflects the degree of freedom of a person." I also agree with it. I can't be labeled a slut by them because I have the desire to have a one-night stand, and I can't be despised by the other party because I am not a good friend. Looking abroad, many people should have such doubts, why so many people become actresses and act in pornography, on the one hand, they make more money, but more because the people around them do not discriminate against this phenomenon , after all, the body is my own, and I didn't feel sorry for anyone under the circumstances of your own wishes. Sex is not ashamed!
And love, you need to be cautious and cautious. Loving someone is not just about loving her (his) body, but more about loving her (his) soul, appreciating her (his) strengths, and tolerant of her (his) shortcomings. Wait, but the most important thing is to love her (his) freedom and not possess her (his). I think the freedom to love her (him) is the essence of love, the greatest and noblest place in love. There are always such clips in movies and novels: a person loves another person and sacrifices his life without hesitation in order to save her; a person loves another person and decisively chooses to let go in order to protect her, etc. That is true love, unreserved love. There is also an expression of love in this film, that is, the reason why Annie chose to break up with the male protagonist was "I need you more than you need me... It's not fair", this sentence is full of It can be said that it is the most touching love story I have ever seen.
When you love someone, you really never think about what you need, but what the other person needs. If the other party loves me too, then give them companionship, care and freedom. If the other party does not love me, then let go and wish her happiness is the expression of loving her.
That kind of "love" in order to catch up and get her is a kind of morbid love, and at best it's just a higher-level, unobtainable sexual attraction that is always stirring.
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