I can remember sad memories, but still live happily

Hollie 2021-12-14 08:01:15

I would easily not touch films with scars, such as Jinling Thirteen Hairpins, Nanjing, and even the famous Schindler's list. This film that was not in the scope of consideration aroused my curiosity due to the introduction of the IPAD conference. Watching a movie is not just watching a novelty.

The film under the banner of 911 stings the tear ducts and wants to earn tears. This is too deliberate. After all, 10 years have passed, and even the Oscars have let it go. You still want to stir up cold rice, which is indeed a bit too much. Therefore, since the day it was released, the film has caused verbal criticism. However, the film is really good, but when I lost on the 10th anniversary, I tried to make things happen, but it caused rebellious sentiment.

Many people don't like Oscar, saying that he is too paranoid, not to mention whether he has AS disease. He is only a 9-year-old child. The closest father in the world has passed away. How normal can you expect him? All these abnormalities are precisely normal reactions. Especially when he was burdened with not only the tragic death of his father, but also the last call before his death. He was there, but couldn't move, couldn't get it. That is lifelong regret, guilt and self-blame, one that cannot be said. secret. It was like he was looking for Black, a secret that could only be told to the silent grandpa. Every time his hysterical long talk is that he endures shouting in his heart for a long time, no one else communicates, and the repetition of himself over and over again becomes that way. Every time I watch this kind of American movie, I will always be stunned by the omnipotent and omnipotent scenes of the children in the film. Do they really understand it or the beautification in the movie? In China, a 9-year-old child who still goes to school all day long and does some little pranks, but he sets on the path of searching for Black alone. There are 472 people who can go on bravely and bravely when they have a strong heart. .

At the same time, she was talking about his mother, that person with only a few shots, especially the clumsy lie told by her son, she believed that this parent was irresponsible. I can't help but feel the huge cultural differences between China and the United States. After all, in China, a country where children are beloved, how can they be assured that he is running around and abducted? Of course, at the end, I found that the silent maternal love has always been there, and the maternal love in the whole world is the same. The greatest support for children is to stand behind and pretend to be ignorant of everything, silently exploring the way and clearing away obstacles. She can't say, can't do anything. No matter what she does, the result is rebellious. She can only stay in the house and wait for Oscar to come back, pretending to know nothing. Only then will there be a strong contrast in the final expression of maternal love, so that Oscar knows that he has always blamed his mother, and she has always understood and is always there.

Some people say that the end of the story is a hoax, and the key is not left to Oscar by his father. However, this is the most exciting part of the film. If the end of the story is to find the treasure of the father, no matter what is found, it will be slightly insufficient, and it is incomparable to the three years of searching before that. So, is it better to give this key to the person who really needs it and fulfill another regret? When Oscar said not to go and open the safe, I really applauded him. Right! Although I was crying out in my heart to take a look and see what it was, what does it have to do with Oscar? Through this lens, he showed his maturity and transparency, and truly let it go.

In the end, all the reunion, all the goodness is a bit Hollywood, but it is the true desire in our hearts. It should also be the law of the development of things. In the end everything will be good, and there is nothing good, just because it has not reached the end. The trauma is always there, no matter how it is extended, 8 minutes will still pass, so only learn to accept and learn to live with it. Maybe this is the meaning of this film. Remember the sad past, be grateful for what you have now, live hard, and embrace tomorrow. Give a glimmer of hope to people who are as pessimistic as me.

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Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close quotes

  • Oskar Schell: It's just a box! An empty box!

    Linda Schell: I know it's an empty box! I know this. But I did it for me, and I did it for you so we can at least try and say goodbye to him. Because he's gone, Oskar, he's gone and he's not coming back. Never. I don't know why a man flew a plane into a building. I don't know why my husband is dead. But no matter how hard you try, Oskar, it's never gonna make sense because it doesn't. It doesn't... make... sense!

    Oskar Schell: Fukozowa you! You don't know anything!

  • [first lines]

    Oskar Schell: There are more people alive now than have died in all of human history, but the number of dead people is increasing. One day, there isn't going to be any room to bury anyone anymore. So, what about skyscrapers for dead people, that are built down. They could be underneath the skyscrapers for living people, that are built up. We could bury people 100 floors down. And a whole dead world could be underneath the living one.