General Anxiety Beyond Shame

Retha 2022-04-19 09:01:38

This is not a movie review, but the idea of ​​this movie:
Brandon is addicted to masturbating, recruiting prostitutes, paid online passion videos, 3Ps, etc., but can't enjoy a normal love sex life, he is anxious but powerless Change, we see despair on his face;
Sissy is self-indulgent, her life is a mess, she is dissatisfied with her life but unable to change, so she keeps self-harming;
in fact, in life, serious procrastination, Internet addiction, sleeping late, etc. Similar to the above state, knowing that this is not good, but still can't help but do or not do it, the anxiety accumulates and becomes more and more serious, and finally becomes despair, self-abandonment, and self-loathing.
The self-loathing caused by this self-defeating life style is probably unique to human beings.

Did someone mention why Sissy didn't get along with Brandon? Early human beings, including animals, did not prohibit sexual behavior between blood relationships, and all moral ethics were slowly established later. Judging from the study of primitive tribes, the ethical regulations are quite different from place to place.
But instinctively speaking, the sexual impulses between the opposite sex/same sex are not bound by ethics, and (I personally think) it is impossible for the instinctual impulses to disappear automatically because of the existence of blood relationship. The ethical conventions of modern humans are constraints on instinct, and this anti-entropy process often produces anxiety. As a result, the film has a lot of themes to shoot.

The two points that come to mind above are not much extended in the movie.

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  • Tyshawn 2021-11-24 08:01:19

    Male prostitutes should not hire prostitutes, they should be male prostitutes, not only can satisfy themselves, but also benefit others, without looking at the boss's face, they will definitely be able to make another career!

  • Jovani 2022-04-24 07:01:04

    Love incompetent men. I have also experienced such a state for a short period of time, and sometimes I feel the same way. The lens is beautiful. Favorite: Carey Mulligan sings in the bar with blonde hair and red lips The body, while the other rooms are very calm, remembering the sentence "Human joys and sorrows are not connected."

Shame quotes

  • David: He was crying. He was crying. There were tears coming down his face. I saw it. You made a grown man cry.

  • David: Listen, one more thing. Your hard drive is filthy, all right. We got your computer back. I mean, it is, it is, dirty. I'm talking like hoes, sluts, anal, double anal, penetration, inter racial facial, man. Cream pie. I don't even know what that is. Do you think it was your intern?

    Brandon Sullivan: On my hard drive?

    David: Yeah, someone's fucking with your account, man. And we're blowing our wad in cash, you know? It takes a really really sick fuck to spend all day on that shit.