I believe that if you are an audience of one of these two attachment types, or a composite type, you should be sensitive to smell the same kind of smell.
Obviously, the male and female protagonists are anxious and avoidant, respectively.
Whether you are anxious or avoidant, you must first identify your emotions and know what your real needs are. Second, psychological theory says that these two types are best associated with healthy personality types (safety types).
I don't think anxious x secure is a good combination. Most security types do not really understand the needs of anxious types (that is, a sense of security). How can people with a strong sense of security deeply understand the extreme anxiety of people who are insecure? Even if it can be understood, it will be bored and abandoned. The possibility that a healthy person will like a disabled person is close to zero.
Evasive x Safe is also not a good combination. After escaping a few times, there is no text. But avoidant x anxiety is a worse combination(?)
Aside from the attachment model, these two are not suitable for being together. The values of the two people have already diverged greatly in terms of "potential", but the two people who are deeply immersed in the illusion of love can no longer turn back. One step is a step... current situation.
The line with the highest appearance rate: What are you thinking? It is the point where anxiety sufferers ponder day and night.
There is also this sentence, "the sense of abandonment has reached its peak."
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