I think this is probably what real love looks like, it doesn't matter whether it is before or after marriage. I think this independent film is very successful. It can't make real love any more real. Two people love each other, but they may not be able to live together forever. Moreover, I found that two people who really love each other often like the qualities that the other does not have, which can explain why love at first sight exists. Because other people don't have an independent field in themselves, they are more willing to approach each other, which just satisfies people's inherent prying and possessive psychology. The two of them are together logically. But after forming a family, having children, having responsibilities, and having to take on so many trivial things in life, I have lost the leisure and leisure that I only cared about at the beginning. Gradually, the girl's mentality will change, and she will become less and less interesting. She only thinks about working from 9 to 5, taking care of the children, food, clothing, housing and transportation. The husband played by Gosling is a man who loves his wife very much and has a lot of interest in life, but he is not very longing for utilitarian material things, which runs counter to the material life that women are born with. Even if they don't get married, after a long time, until the maternal factor in the female body breaks out, they will still have problems in their lives. In fact, most couples are the same. They are running a family, not a relationship. There is no such thing as a real couple indulging in love all day long, unless they are crazy.
I never dared to touch this kind of love that is too real. From the beginning to the end, it makes me feel more and more blue. It is real like what happens around me every day. However, I do not reject it. At least let us see the reality clearly. I won't always fantasize about the beautiful plot of idol dramas.
Sometimes I also feel very contradictory, whether to run love or run a family. If you are selfish, you will want to run love and give up family. After all, how difficult it is to achieve the best of both worlds. The world is so big, is there really such a match made in heaven? So a lot of times, getting married is just an excuse, an excuse for us to settle down, pathetic. In any case, the couple in this film is indeed in true love, but the love is so deep that it is impossible to carry out the most basic daily life, chai, rice, oil and salt.
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