love, not so simple

Rosemarie 2022-04-22 07:01:05

After watching the tears for a long time, it may be a release from the helplessness and depression of this life accumulated in my heart with the plot.
Ryan Gosling has always been very suitable for playing this kind of poor boy who is a bit literary and crazy for love.
They did love each other, romantic, moved, and passion for living together, but what marriage needs more is a common outlook on life, values, and the ability to deal with communication problems.
It is difficult to maintain a romantic and touching marriage for a lifetime. A high-quality marriage needs to get something from each other more than once, such as care, appreciation, passion or security and many other things.
Many people think that they will quarrel over a problem and then gradually become silent. This is the biggest killer of marriage, because they will go further and further away from each other. Until the day they collapse, they will still be tortured by their past goodwill, which is the most painful.

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  • Dolores 2022-03-24 09:01:31

    At the end, I couldn't help but think of the lyrics of the second-hand rose: There is a girl who is like a flower, and a man said you don't be afraid, accidentally they became a family, gave birth to a cub and struggled together...

  • Matilde 2021-11-12 08:01:15

    Marriage and love are really fucking enemies! Love is idealism and can go crazy all the way regardless of the consequences. Marriage has to slowly clean up the mess after this madness. The director deliberately uses the two story lines before and after to compare marriage and love. Some life flows, some fragmented, a helpless story.

Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: We're inside a robot's vagina

  • Dean: Look, I didn't want to be somebody's husband and I didn't want to be somebody's dad. That wasn't my... goal in life. For some guys it is - wasn't mine. But somehow, I've... it was what I wanted. I didn't know that and it's all I wanna do. I don't want to do anything else. That's all I want to do. I work so I can do that.