crisis . A lot of the content in it is very close to life. When I saw 1/3, my heart
began to tangle, why didn't Dean like Cindy so much without her understanding and forgiveness? Everyone
has their own life, especially after getting married, there are many things that need to be tolerated. If you don't like it,
you can let the other party change. If you can't change it, then slowly accept it, and communicate
well between the two. Whether it's Dean or Cindy, no one is right, but the relationship needs to be managed. When
communication becomes a burden, no matter how good the bridge in the middle is, it will not be able to withstand the baptism of time and collapse.
The film uses the method of interlude to restore the
process . But whether cindy was young or after years of marriage, her beauty didn't bring her
more luck. It seems to me that she has instead accumulated a grudge against life. But Dean has been working hard to
make her happy and regain her vision of life. It's a pity that no matter how much he does, no matter how carefully he
maintains it, he can't make Cindy change his opinion of him in the end. Because Cindy doesn't understand
Dean. This is because they do not mediate conflicts well.
No matter how deep the love is, the first marriage is more touching. From being moved to a
deeper . And before he met Cindy, he never imagined that he would become someone's husband and child
's father, that was not his life goal, that was not his ideal. But because it was
Cindy, he changed. This is what he wants, without realizing it. Now
, he has given up his original ideals and is maintaining the family steadfastly. The children are not his, but for the
sake of his beloved, he does not care. Received Cindy and the baby in the womb. but
Dean didn't even get a high school degree after all, what else could he do other than some physical work?
I'm wondering if it's really doomed to be unhappy if you don't have the right door? Like the characters in the movie.
Granted, Cindy just wanted him to find a job where he'd been drinking since the morning. But let's face
it , we actually don't know if Dean really likes drinking. Not long after the movie started,
the dog that was kept in the family died. Dean buried it and drank because of sadness.
I always remember this scene, I think maybe every time. Everyone needs a spiritual support. As a man, Dean
can't tell Cindy his suffering, he can only endure it silently.
The two people in my memory are so young, the vitality and passion brought by that kind of youth cannot be extinguished
. Times have changed, and they have become so embarrassed in the blink of an eye. It's a pity that in the end Cindy
no longer loves him. No matter how many tears the two of them shed in the end, Dean struggled so hard, he
turned and walked away with the firecrackers unleashed by the joy of the neighbors.
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