what also comes with love

Mercedes 2022-04-22 07:01:05

I have to admit that I was misled by the poster. I always thought that this was another story about what seems to be love and desire is actually just desire, so I didn't open it until I was bored. So, my heart was grasped by an invisible hand again, again and again.
This way of narration is like drawing a greater-than sign and a less-than sign on a page, one tells them to come together and one tells them to stay away. The way of expression is very realistic, like any love story of a man and a woman, which is one of the reasons that resonates with me the most.
He fell in love with her at first sight, tried his best to get close to her, those little humors, those flattering and sarcastic jokes, those eyes that could not take their eyes off her, that really goofy but unique and sexy singing made him so romantic and interesting; when they met by chance On the bus, she didn't look at him when she was talking, all girls do, deliberately avoiding that eager gaze, because she knew that she liked him, and she was afraid that her heart would break out.
Maybe everyone thinks when they are in a relationship crisis: how can this be, used to be the closest person, why does it make me feel so far now, why we used to have nothing to talk about, and now we have nothing to talk about, why do we have something to say All that's left to talk is quarrels. This is shown very clearly in the movie. They embraced and danced in a song that belonged to them, Dean looked for the ring that was thrown out, Cindy decisively stated his position to the boss who had plans, of course they still loved each other, of course not out of love as Cindy said, but too much love, I want to love so much. But love has many by-products. It breeds sensitivity, insecurity, excessive desire for protection, and too much dedication that makes the other person breathless; it also breeds pity, burden, infinite tolerance, and helpless escape. This is a really difficult subject.
I cried several times when I watched it, and then I watched it again, but I still couldn't hold the gate. There are too many scenes worth pondering, and I recorded the most impressive:
1. I replayed Dean's eyes several times when we first met, when he asked "What's your name"
2. Of course, there was a chance encounter on the bus, two people chatting, Cindy Said that bad joke
3. Sing, dance, play the piano, laugh.
4. Their songs, including when Dean first listened to Cindy at the Future House
5. The quarrel in the hospital was so real that it scared me
6. Cindy found out that she couldn't bear to kill the child. The two of them said nothing outside the hospital window, only to see that Cindy was about to leave after saying that, Dean immediately hugged her tightly, here The most touching
7. At the end of the conversation in the kitchen, their hearts were torn apart by them.

These two songs must be written down:

You always hurt the one you love,
The one you shouldn't hurt at all.
You always take the sweetest rose
And crush it until the petals fall.
You always break the kindest heart
With a hasty word you can't recall.
So if i broke your heart last night
It's because i love you most of all.

You and me,
You and me ,
Nobody baby but you and me.
If the stars don't shine, if the moon won't rise, if I never see the setting sun again,
You won't hear me cry, this I testify
Please believe me, boy, you know I wouldn't lie.

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: We're inside a robot's vagina

  • Dean: Look, I didn't want to be somebody's husband and I didn't want to be somebody's dad. That wasn't my... goal in life. For some guys it is - wasn't mine. But somehow, I've... it was what I wanted. I didn't know that and it's all I wanna do. I don't want to do anything else. That's all I want to do. I work so I can do that.