Love to compromise, in the end there is no solution

Valentina 2022-04-22 07:01:05

It's not your fault, it's not my fault, it's just that life is so sad.
When the two of them were arguing, you were also in a hurry.
The reason for the strong impact of abuse films is that it can make the audience feel uncomfortable with them but cannot find an outlet to vent. So they could only argue endlessly without reaching a settlement.

Don't say forgive. There is nothing wrong with love, but the fragile can't stand the wear and tear of time.
This is also a revolutionary road, with a slightly better ending than the [revolutionary road] in 2008.
Their path has crumbled, and you at least have a path to go. Although the heart is destined to hurt for a long time.

Don't say you promised. Because when I married you, I did think about forever. I frankly told my ex-boyfriend that I have been loyal to you since marriage; to the doctor's suggestion, I directly said that I am a married woman. I want to live with you.

But you know, the word "want" is too light to be light. Life is difficult because we are always overwhelmed. When we laugh, we think that happiness will last forever. We always think that hard work will be rewarded. The "thinking" part is just wishful thinking about life.

People become small in front of the world, and love becomes weak in time.
Cindy didn't know why she couldn't love anymore, and Dean didn't even know.
Our hearts hurt so much that we can't take it anymore so that I annoy me when I see you but still don't know why.

They tried to make changes, but how can they change if they can't find the right medicine?

I really want to get that ring back. I'm angry again, and I don't want to hit you and leave you. I love you so, I don't know why.
Dean slammed on the door with those broken sunglasses and slammed the door to say so many sorry, helpless looks not as good as a baby.

We don't know why when we are together, we just stay together like this, hum our tunes, dance our dances, put on rings, we are husband and wife.
I don't know when we are going to separate, so let's just separate like this, hug our daughter, say I love you, throw away the ring, we are passersby.

Don't blame Dean for being headstrong, don't blame Cindy for being decisive.
Time means that we have nowhere to go, so let the figure darken in the flowing fireworks.

Love is complicated.

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.