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Can people believe in pure love? This is still an unknown question, and although countless realities confirm one answer after another that is contrary to what people expect, people can't always believe it completely. Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, some people say that marriage is the mortal enemy of love, maybe this, talking about Cindy and Dean! Maybe this, talking about marriage victims among many people in the world! Youthful passion and sweet love have also bloomed on them. This "Blue Valentine" has made many moviegoers feel that they should not watch it before marriage. It is neither bloody nor violent, but it is on a par with many violent movies. The American Film Institute is even more afraid that it will destroy young people's yearning for love. Dean went out to leave, his daughter went to chase Dean, Cindy hugged her back, and the sound of firecrackers crackled not far away. This is the end of the movie "Blue Valentine". "Realism" seems to be the biggest feature of this film. (Whether it is from the macro-level plot trend, or a micro-level line, an expression, or an action, it is not difficult to see that its creator is trying his best to present the most extreme artistic reality, and there is no trace of over-sculpture.) In this way, although the ending is open-ended, it inevitably leaves a blue shadow in the hearts of the audience. The most powerless thing is reality, and the second is the art that is infinitely close to reality. The characters perform well and the film has won 5 awards. (The delicate performances of the two leading actors are of great credit. The male and female lead actors Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams were nominated for the Golden Globe Award and the Academy Award for Best Actor/Actress for their performances in the film.) , the film also won the Cannes Festival Film Award, the Film Critics Association Award and so on. The film uses a cross-narrative approach. (Based on the "now", returning from time to time to the first meeting of the two protagonists six years ago, the "past" is presented in the shaky footage, which is somewhat dreamy, but also real like a satire of the "present") , broken clips are like broken love. Cindy and Dean share a certain resemblance. (Both have their own way of acting out a certain kind of bohemianism, Cindy had had 24 sexual partners before meeting Dean, who was warm, humorous and artistic, but reluctant to make a living on his talents, but engaged in irregular physical labor) similar family environment. (In Cindy's family, the love of the parents is exhausted in the long days. At the dinner table, the conflict can break out in an instant, the father yells at the mother, and Dean grew up in a divorced family) They also had Passion, with true love. (When they met, Dean said illogically wonderful words to Cindy, who took an interest in him). They sang and danced on the street, Dean played with ukuleles, they flirted in taxis, bickered with taxi drivers, laughed uninhibited... And now married life, besides work, is busy. (Back to "now", at the beginning of the film, the lives of Cindy, Dean and their daughter are peaceful and harmonious on the surface, conflict is looming, and Cindy's eyes reveal a sense of alienation) She starts when she wakes up Toiling, tidying up the room, dressing her daughter, driving to work, trying to get a career promotion, and not thinking about romance outside of everyday life Six years ago, Cindy and Dean got married. "You know, I'm not good enough for you," he said. "Don't say that, you're hurting my feelings," she replied, with unconcealed love. Before meeting Dean, they parted ways when a man (Bobby) ejaculated into her while he was having sex with her. She found out she was pregnant shortly after meeting Dean. She went to Dean, and after learning the truth, Dean beat the barbed wire on the river bank over and over again in pain. He once said to her "I will never get married". Lying in the operating room, already anaesthetized, she cried weakly "Stop!" before the last step. She walked out of the operating room, Dean was waiting for her, she wanted to leave, Dean held her tightly in his arms, on the bus, he hugged her, "Let's get married". They went back to Cindy's parents' house together. "Have you graduated from high school?" Cindy's mother asked. "No, I always felt that school was not the right place for me." Six years ago, they were crazy about love, and they took responsibility for love, but today's love is bland, boring, and embarrassing. Does a relationship have to go through the "seven-year itch"? At Dean's request, on "Blue Valentine's Day", Cindy had to go to the pre-booked love hotel with Dean. In the supermarket on the way, Cindy met Bobby. She was surprised, but she smiled, as if she had encountered something new outside the tired current life. Back in the car, she mentioned it to Dean, for the first time in a positive emotional conflict. In the shower, Cindy avoided Dean's caresses. The conversation that followed pushed the atmosphere to freezing point. When drunk to the point of drinking, Cindy once again rejected Dean's intimacy request. Then came the final explosion the next day. As long as adults watch this movie, they don't jump to conclusions about who's right and who's wrong. This movie is like a question mark written by the writer and director! Does love matter? It seems very important, if there is no love, how can we come together without hesitation in the first place. Do wealth, status and "motivation" matter? It also seems to be very important, when the "magic of love" disappears, they have to be used to maintain the relationship. What if both? Will there be a happy and lasting marriage? Some people start looking for the "magic power of love" in the face of a stable and passionate marriage. People always believe in the "magic power of love" and overestimate their ability to maintain love, and they begin to ferment dissatisfaction after facing the firewood, rice, oil, and salt. If the accumulated company cannot be successfully transformed into family affection, they can only wait for one beat and two parts in their own patience. In this process, many people do not understand the deep truth and do not know how to fight back. Cindy and Dean have worked hard, but their conflict is like a tumbler, and their counterattack unfolds feebly in the heavy metal background music of the movie. The good is in the past, and now only the hate is left. Constantly cutting, rational and chaotic. At the same time, the film seems to imply the ultimate question: perhaps it is because of "belief in eternity" that the few exceptions are made. Don't forget, this film is still an open ending, in the long life In the pursuit of love, the courage and confidence to pursue love can still be determined by oneself. "Blue Valentine" stands for eternity. Who knows if this is irony, or is it the expectations of the writers and directors?
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