If you love a soul more than fame and money
And that soul loves you too
It's the most natural thing
There is no turning back
Here are some tips for you
(one)
White wedding dress, blue suit, red tie. She looks at her slightly bulging belly in front of the mirror, and you wait anxiously outside the house, happy, excited and restless. She asked what are you thinking? You said I wish the car could go a little faster, so I'm worried you'll change your mind in the next second. We go, we go, we go.
At the town hall, she laughed and burst into tears. From today onwards, no matter whether it is good or bad, rich or poor, sick or healthy, we will love and cherish each other as long as we live. She used the ring as a symbol of her steadfast vow to represent indelible love. But there was a flaw in this. A vow can only guarantee that you will never leave, how can you guarantee that you will love each other forever? No love is no love, any tame and hypnosis of the mind is a conspiracy, and it will never succeed. You say: this is my worst day. Baby, don't leave me. You force her to keep her promise. You say: tell me, what should I do? I will do it. She said she didn't know either. If you don't love it, whatever you do is wrong. love at first sight? Seems like an old friend? It sounds like something mysterious and mysterious. You only believe in the feeling of singing and dancing, which hits you in an instant. Is your fascination with her because of loneliness, because there is no substitute, or because she is irreplaceable? You ask what her name is? She said go away. You ask, "Your name is Go away?" You say that people who don't want to die don't die. You believe that love is like that too. You compliment and tease. But everything that has life will die, and no one can live forever. Love also has life, so love also dies. You play guitar and sing in front of a clothing store window. She put down her schoolbag, threw her coat on the ground, and tap danced. You also wrote a song that belongs to both of you. It's just you and her in this song: If you love a soul more than fame and gold and that soul feels the same about you It's a natural fact there's no turning back When love is real You don't have to show it
When it is true
Then everyone will know 'Cause there'll be no one But you and me Not every couple has their own song, but once time passes, even if the single loops, there is no going back. You forced her to put down the housework at hand, put aside the worries of going to work the next morning, and dragged her to the love hotel. You book a "future room". But where is the future? You say this room is like a robot vagina. You are bathing together in the robot's vagina. She was bored. You can also dance. Can also wrestle. When love disappears, you don't have to pretend. When it has gone, then everyone will know. 'Cause there'll be no one But you and me You are angry at her cooperation, not eager. You want her to love you, you want her to want you. If you don't want to have sex, she will satisfy you. You think that's a form of rape. But it's hard to disguise whether you love it or not. Even a top-level actor will inevitably reveal his secrets after years and months. And what you are most afraid of is that she doesn't even want to pretend. (two)
You said you were going to divorce him! In a fit of rage, he pulled off the wedding ring and threw it away. You start the car and he suddenly opens the door and jumps out. You saw him hurriedly looking for the ring that he had discarded in the grass, and you wanted to turn the ground over. But you also just watched helplessly. He comes from a divorced family. When he was ten years old, his mother abandoned her husband and children and ran away with others. Maybe because in this world, she has more important things than being his mother. Your family usually doesn't talk to each other very much, and when they talk, they make a lot of noise. Grandma is your safe haven and mentor who guides you. People always start with love and end with resentment. Decades of parental company are nothing but decades of entanglement and kidnapping. You fell in love one day, then you get bored. You feel the spell is unsolvable. So you have only dissatisfaction, no countermeasures. When he asks you what he should do, you don't know the answer either. He didn't graduate from high school because he felt that studying was useless. He respects your higher education and is truly proud of you, even though he may not be able to tell the difference between medicine and medicine. He can paint, sing, and dance, but he's still willing to be an ordinary little man and be a happy painter after drinking his beer at 8 in the morning. He said his ideal was not to be someone's husband, someone's father. But he is really happy to be your husband and father to your children. Yes, he's a piece of shit who's been a dad. He also has a father who also has a little talent for everything, but in the end he still shows the door. How many Talented Losers are there in the world? All live like shit! He has a side that makes you particularly love him, and a side that makes you particularly annoying him. He jumps over the barbed wire of the light rail, he drags you to that ridiculous couple's suite, and he trails you drunkenly to the office. He said he loves you so he won't hurt you. But he doesn't know he has hurt you.
He makes you who you are, but he can't make you always be who you really are. Touching is only for a while, and then it is to be picky in every possible way for not loving. You are not satisfied, you want more. He doesn't understand and can't give it. Misunderstandings, misunderstandings, suspicions, quarrels, and cold wars followed. There is a bitch, and his name is Human!
(three)
Probably only a person with such a dark heart like me would like this movie so much. Those emotions, those events, I haven't experienced them, but I seem to understand them all. When I was 17 years old, a high school girl said to me that some feelings are like a gust of wind that blows past and then ceases; like a fragrance that floats past and then dissipates; like a season of flowers that bloom, then fade away, Even if it reopens, it is not the same flower as before. The past has passed, and the sand at the fingertips cannot be retained. If you love, please love hard; if you don't love, please let go. Never reconcile because I don't believe in reconciliation. Reconciliation is compromise. It is already an endgame, how can it end successfully? The meaning you want is the meaninglessness in their hearts, and the reconciliation they want is the rubbish in your heart. Most afraid of one party wanting to let go, the other party will not let go. Whoever fulfills the other side will be hurt. This is the most painful thing in the world. What do you ask me to do? I do not know either.
Yes, I lied.
I've been through it all, at least I've seen it.
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