Cindy and Dean weren't the same people. To put it bluntly, they were not in the same household. In fact, they don't have to wait until the 7-year itch, maybe they will separate, maybe because of Frankie's reason, or if there is no Frankie, they will not get married at all.
When they first met, Cindy was studying medicine and had a dream of becoming a doctor. I think Cindy's irascible father makes Cindy somewhat insecure and insecure, but at least Cindy grew up in a healthy family. Dean's parents divorced when he was 10 years old, and he never saw his mother again. His father was a music janitor. Although Dean could play music, he didn't even finish high school. To apply for a mover, he did not have any work experience, indicating that he was not qualitative before, and he could not do a job for long.
In this relationship, Dean has always loved Cindy more, and he fell in love with Cindy at first sight. He repeatedly asked his black buddy colleague: "Do you believe in love at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? I think I have known her for a long time." Think about his evaluation of Cindy: "How can a girl like you read medicine? You Should be a supermodel!" "Cindy is probably the smartest person I know!" "I know I'm not good enough for you, but no one deserves it, so let me take over." Look, He also knew that he was not the same as Cindy, he was not worthy of Cindy, but he loved Cindy so much that he was not willing to give Cindy to another man. So he was willing to be a bad father, knowing that Frankie was not his daughter, he still married Cindy, but if he didn't, he wouldn't be able to reach Cindy in his life.
Cindy is a beautiful, intelligent and ambitious girl. It's because I'm a little bit unconfident, so I have been entangled with the scumbag Bobby for so long. When I hear Dean compliment her on her beauty--"You know, in my experience, the prettier the girl is, the crazier it is, so you're insane." You see Cindy laughing so shyly. In other words, Dean is really good at flirting with girls, hahahaha, everyone learns a little bit. Cindy was unwilling to live her current life and went to work every day, so she asked Dean, "You are so potential, what do you want to do?" Cindy is a realist.
And Dean, he is a dreamer, he replied: "Why should I use my potential, all I want to do is be your husband, be Frankie's dad." He just wants to be a dad, he doesn't want to stand out, and he doesn't want to be decent in front of outsiders, he just wants to accompany his wife and children on the kang head every day, and also wants Cindy to give him a baby. When we chatted earlier, I could actually feel that they were different people. Dean asked Cindy, "Where's Walter?" Cindy signaled that Walter was getting old and that he was relieved of suicide. Then Dean was shocked, wondering why people were afraid of getting old and wanting to die. Then he asked Cindy, "Do you understand what he's doing, do you believe you will grow old?" Cindy said, "Of course, people are afraid of getting old, and of course I will grow old." Then Dean said it was a failure He thinks that he will not grow old, and he also said that if you really think you will grow old, then you will really grow old. Look what a naive person Dean is, idealism.
Cindy married Dean at that time, all because she was pregnant, and she didn't dare to have an abortion. At that time, Dean was her life-saving straw, so even though her parents didn't support them, they still got married. A few minutes before the registration, Dean was afraid that Cindy would get married. He regretted it, wishing he could catch Cindy sooner. Even though Cindy filed for divorce, Dean took off their wedding ring and threw it in the grass when Dean was most furious, but within a few minutes he got out of the car and desperately tried to get the ring back, he really She still cared about this marriage and Cindy, but at that time Cindy couldn't see Dean at all. She looked at Dean's eyes, cold and indifferent, without any love, so chilling. Dean finally burst into tears and begged Cindy to give him another chance, he would do whatever Cindy asked him to do, but Cindy didn't, Cindy didn't love him at all, this marriage was a mistake from start to finish. It was Dean's dream, now awake.
Frankie obviously prefers Dean as a dad, so in the end Dean leaves sadly and Frankie chases after him. I was really sad to see that scene, Dean is a good dad, and for his daughter's performance, Dean would be on time, but Cindy would be late. In the end, Dean's departure from that back made me really sad.
Dean is a good guy, otherwise he wouldn't have helped Walter decorate the room so carefully. It's just that Cindy is not suitable for him. His musical talent once attracted Cindy, but it was really short-lived and was consumed by marriage. In fact, the relationship between Cindy and Dean is very similar to Rory and Dean in "Gilmore Girls". They are both very good people. They didn't make it to the end simply because they didn't fit, and neither party was wrong. Dean should have found a girl who can talk to her just like her, who admires his music and doesn't have much ambition.
Cindy was really selfish, and after using Dean, he threw away Dean. I'm not on his side because Commander High is handsome. He does not have a stable job or a reliable shoulder for a woman, but you know from the beginning that he is such a person, you must Do you know that your marriage can't work out after both of you are covered in bruises? A marriage united because of love will collapse because of the trivialities after marriage, let alone a marriage without love?
The film is interspersed between reality and memory. The memories are all beautiful, and the lighting is very bright, bright yellow. And the reality part is dark light, dark blue, melancholy. In the memory, it is clear that they are in love, but in reality their relationship is so vulnerable. The editing is a bit confusing, just like their relationship, it makes people want to go crazy.
Both High Commander and Williams sacrificed a lot for the post-marriage part, and they both gained a lot of weight. Women really look old when they are fat, so I have to hurry up and lose weight. I'm really worried about Commander Gao's hairline.
Finally, why is this movie called Valentine's Day? It has nothing to do with Valentine's Day. If you want to get married, don't watch this movie, if you don't want to get married, please do so.
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