The theme of Blue Valentine's Day is that after getting it, two people who love each other enter the hall of marriage, get married and have children, but the passion and enthusiasm retreat, the return of reason and triviality, so that everything can no longer return to the beginning. , gradually drifting apart, more and more friction and estrangement, inability to communicate and understand, compromised apologies, meaningless quarrels, fierce confrontations in the public, and a fairy tale-like love past that cannot be let go.
It's not just the moment that makes people feel tired and painful, but those beautiful encounters that make people cry are even more tormenting.
What if you give up? Love with vigor and vigor, and then stick to each other, it's better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes, always remember every moment when the person you love the most is with you, like a burst of fireworks recorded in a flash, every millisecond can't be dropped and then It is better to be with someone who is more suitable for marriage with the person you love next, because you don't care much, so you can just let it go and be indifferent.
However, if you don't try, how will you know if you are the one in case? The one who can fall in love to death?
But what if you are not exempt, but you still become the remaining nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine? If the man you used to love makes you tired again and again, makes you feel sleepy, speechless, and you would rather wave your hands and be too lazy to care about it and stop arguing about what is right or wrong, and feel that damn "you love me" Whatever you want, think about it." He almost blurted out.
Then what to do?
In fact, he is still the same as before, the same kind, the same wanting to be romantic with you, the same unrestrained and unrestrained, the same happy smile like a child when he gets the salary, the same casualness , exuding exuberant male hormones, with a sexy beard, wearing baggy jeans that can never be pulled up.
But your dishes haven't been washed, your work hasn't been done, your kids in kindergarten haven't picked it up, your bills haven't been paid, your milk and vegetables are gone, you haven't called your parents yet, and your email The letter has not yet been received.
But his kindness is no longer useful to you, kindness can't help you wash the bowl in the sink, kindness can't pick up the child from kindergarten, kindness can't pay him a salary to pay a loan, kindness can't help repair it Problem with refrigerator door.
He clearly should share the responsibility of a family with you, but he seems to be just a child who has not grown up, living in his own dreams all day long. Except for asking you for affection and romance, he has no substantial contribution to the family. How to cooperate? How can you cooperate?
His unrestrained unrestrainedness comes from the instability of his work, so when you are a college student, he can come to you anytime, anywhere, like a magic soldier, he will appear in time if you have any difficulties, if you are upset, just a phone call Can summon him from thousands of miles away.
But now, the monthly bills are annoying, and the budget is overrun every month. He is still lying there drinking beer and watching TV, laughing and swearing, with a heartless look .
So the unrestrained contentment has become sloppy, irresponsible to the family, and sloppy and does not seek to make progress.
You've worked hard all day, dealing with countless sick people in a chaotic and cramped space full of disinfectant, facing all kinds of misfortunes and misfortunes, checking those dizzying forms and potions, you're too busy In the dark, when I came back, I just wanted to have a good sleep and forget everything, but I couldn't do it, and he didn't have the consciousness to help you.
Will you hate it, why did you fall in love with his casualness?
Would you hate yourself when you were young, ignorant and impulsive?
Would you hate to hand you over to his family back then?
Will you regret why you didn't listen to your friend's advice back then?
Will you regret why you didn't keep him in your memory?
I love him, I love him so I want to marry him, I want to have a child with him, I want to start a family, I want to be harmonious forever.
Even if you know that the person you love may not have the same values, money, world view as yourself.
But you see, how bleak the end of two people who do not have the same concept will be.
The person I love is not necessarily suitable for marriage.
But the person I love doesn't want to be with him forever.
Is it prudent and timid to give up or gamble with one's own life, whether to stick to each other or forget each other in the rivers and lakes, is it more saddening to persist until the end to find out that you are unsatisfactory or to die without a problem?
It's a shame that this question has never been answered and will never be answered.
No wonder some people say that life is a gamble, and marriage is the middle game.
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