When Dean learned from Cindy that Messi had left them forever, he would rather choose to stay alone on the sofa and let the DV footage of his daughter and Messi playing fill his mind. At that time, in the eyes of a seven-footed man, there was a worried look and an unforgiving depression.
Looking at it this way, maybe Dean is fragile, so vulnerable. In fact, when the daughter first found out that Messi was not in her cabin, she hurriedly climbed up to her father who was sleeping soundly on the sofa. With just one sentence, the father's heart would be broken and he would gently hold his daughter. hand just to satisfy her. After all, an adult is an adult. Maybe he has expected something, but he is still playing jokes with his daughter, diverting the child's concerns about Messi's disappearance.
I really like this scene. Compared with the gentle and delicate Daddy before, I immediately showed the strong side of a man. Like his own business, he carried his daughter and walked into the house, joking as he walked, "I'm hungry." Are you hungry? I'm going to eat your fingers, oh so many fingers. Such a picture is so warm and romantic, how can a man be so infatuated with his little lover, ⊙﹏⊙b Khan
However, just as the father and daughter returned to the house, a dramatic scene after scene took place. When they crawled up to Cindy, who was sleeping, Cindy's expression was nothing but rejection. Cindy, who was awakened, was like an old mother. She handled all the guys in the kitchen skillfully and freely, but I don't know if it was careless or intentional. She seemed to be less patient and meticulous when preparing meals for her daughter. Serve on the table. In this regard, Dean is very optimistic, I want to say, he is really a father, and he is so good at taking care of children. The father and daughter lie down and play, lick and eat on the dining table, full of innocence and sweetness in the funny and funny. Even though I haven't experienced what it's like to be a mom, it seems like I might play a role like Cindy, so scary ( ⊙ o ⊙ )!
Facing the fact that Messi left, Dean suggested going to the erotic hotel to relax, but Cindy's attitude was very stubborn. This seems to mean that Cindy's heart has begun to chaotic, he can't give what she wants, and she doesn't want what he wants. After a dispute, the two people who were so contradictory still chose to compromise, but behind this compromise, there was a lot of helpless sadness hidden behind it.
On the way to the hotel, Cindy happened to meet her former lover in a shopping mall. Even a few short and subtle sentences could not cover up her hidden floating heart. No one knew what Cindy was thinking, not even herself.
The dialogue of this play is really wonderfully designed. It truly and nakedly depicts the various anxiety, tension, fear, confusion and entanglement in the process of psychological struggle between men and women when facing sensitive topics. Couldn't help but let out a sigh of relief. And this also seems to be a hurdle that any couple or couple can never escape. Even if they pass, it is only temporary.
If it were me, I might be like Cindy. After driving a long distance, I would choose to reveal my secrets to him around me. However, sometimes, some words hurt people, and some words seem to hurt people more easily. Between passion and desire, there is no real wise man, and of course there is no blindly wounded person. Love is what you want and what you want. Since love has to be prepared to be hurt, even if it is covered with bruises, it is not the taste of love in itself.
Sometimes, when the fuse of the quarrel is about to be triggered, the fire extinguisher that extinguishes the fire of the war seems to be particularly violent, but in the raging fire, who will really care about the little flames that still remain? However, this power that lies between each other and can be compared to cosmic power is a desire that will fascinate people at any time in any love field.
In this way, the two of them drove all the way to the "future house" that belonged to them. When Dean saw the dreamy rotating bed, all the hormones of the male animal swelled up in an instant, and there were probably only the most instinctive impulses and ashes from the animal in his mind.
And Cindy continued to play her compromising role, all she seemed to do was to satisfy the appetite of the man beside her who was making her teeth crooked, reluctantly taking what she thought she needed from her carry-on backpack, using her picky Her eyes despised every angle in the room. However, even though she was so picky, she never even realized the idea of changing into sexy clothes. It was still the blouse that made her look lost. After that, all of Cindy's actions were like a patterned and streamlined work. At this time, in her world, nothing but indifference was still indifference.
In the next episode, if you watch it with a naked heart rated as NC-17 in the movie rating, I am afraid that half of you will gain, but the other half will be disappointed.
Sometimes, for some topics, I really have to thank the magic of alcohol. Under its stimulation, it seems that all problems can be solved, and it seems that it is still a dead lump.
When the long shot of the picture focuses on the old time when two people met for the first time, all the beautiful words you can imagine will not be too much. If love at first sight hits you without even saying hello, what better than This fantastic feeling is more desirable? Just looking at this familiar past, how many people will not find the wounds that have long been scarred on themselves?
Perhaps it was no accident that Dean and Cindy got to this point, however, the reason for this ending is more than a lack of love and paranoia for each other. Dean, as he said, just wants to be a good husband and a good father, but Cindy is drifting away from him on the track of love, she is tired of this kind of love, even numb, as she chooses A person sleeps lazily, just as she chooses to prepare her daughter's meals carelessly, just as she chooses to refuse the provocation of the fire of lust without understanding the style. Of course, you can fully understand all this as her pressure, just as you have endured, when the reality and helplessness of life cruelly dilute the romance and sweetness of love, even the most enthusiastic people will be slack and powerless. . There is no one who will not encounter this hurdle, and no one will withdraw without saying that they will quit.
This seems to point to the pain point of all those who love each other. Behind the love, the heart-wrenching pain, hatred, sadness, separation, these words make people fall into a trough. It's just an inexplicable relationship with love, and if you want to be infatuated with love, you have to be willing to take risks. Just like people who like to eat chocolate, they have to take the risk of gaining weight.
Looking at Dean and Cindy, after turning around and leaving each other's backs, it can't be said that it is a relief like relief, or the beginning of a new burden, but I suddenly remembered the sentence on the Weibo signature: When the fireworks are flying, the flames go out. In the sea, forgetting is like memory, it is the best memorial for each other.
Sometimes, when I think about myself, why not? When the initial taste of love fades away, when the skin-to-skin relationship is only a routine, when all the fantasies of love come to nothing, all that can be done seems to be left Dive into this cage that we have created for ourselves, life needs to continue, unless we would rather choose to go to extremes and end all these unnecessary troubles, but even so, we are still struggling to get closer to love, learn to love, even if Burning with lust and no regrets.
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