Basically love all the time just bad luck

Brennan 2022-04-20 09:01:28

Supposedly there was a discussion on IMDB, "the relationship was over when...?" To me, the answer was clear and simple - when they met.

Hormones and romantic feelings often soften the initial throbbing emotions like PS. You only see the love you want to see – oh no, it should be, the so-called love. You are like flowers and beautiful family, like water. He was high-spirited and youthful. In fact, you can not want anything, what else do you want except him/her. All remaining problems are not problems, everything can be solved as long as it is with you, as long as it is with you.

In fact, just forget that the problem will not solve itself.

Conflicts stem from different discourse backgrounds. You can never erase your background - that's part of your personal identity, and it's an important part. When conflict is irreconcilable, it has nothing to do with love or not. Because this is not a problem that love can solve. I can love you very much, but I can't stand you becoming more and more depraved and thinking you're cool, like my first love friend who has been entangled for seven years. I can stay with you very comfortably, but the topic always stays on the trivialities of life, and I can't see the future. For example, my EX who has been entangled for more than three years. You see, in fact, my purpose is just to rant.

If I have learned anything from so many years of puppy love, it is that there are no wrong feelings, only wrong time, wrong place, wrong person.

I've said this to others once, I don't believe in love at first sight. You can foresee countless true loves on the trajectory of your life, but in fact everyone is fighting for nothing more than luck. See who is at the right time, at the right place, and with the right person. Let's see who has better luck. When I say this, my tone is understatement.

You know, when I was a teenager, I always felt that if I didn't spend a lot of youth in my hands, I would be sorry for this good time. Treat crush as true love, too anxious to leave a mark on yourself. So many stupid things done so sincerely, in the name of love.

I remember how I look when I was young, and now I want to slow it down, cause I have no intention to ruin things out.

So, whether we can be together or not, basically, it has nothing to do with love at all. .

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.