at first sight, the more intense the flame, the faster Don't look for romantics. Too many precedents tell us that the premise of complementary success is never a contradiction of basic values. 4 Don't hope that any existing problems can be solved in the form of marriage. Differences before marriage will only increase after marriage. Zoom in 5 Don't believe in promises easily, let alone promises 6 If you ever had a broken family, if you have never questioned love and marriage, please heal yourself first, don't hope for an angel to heal you with a perfect marriage 7 No matter what How progressive the world is and how strong feminists are, please believe: Recognizing that a woman is a woman is the real feminist. When a woman takes the responsibility of a man forcibly, the biological instinct of evolution and inheritance will distort your physiology, and the concept of social inheritance will destroy your will. 8 Love (not sympathy or dependence) + reasonable role distribution (economic and Ability to live) + Responsibility (ability and preparation to face unknown difficulties and temptations) + Tolerance (clearly understand each other's and own strengths and weaknesses) + Freedom (self-space and adjustment) + No natural or man-made disasters = a marriage that may be happy 9 Ten thousand and one times, the child tmd is innocent. If you want to make him cry, please don't give birth to him. The most helpless thing in life is that no one can choose whether they want to be born or not. 10 Whoever gets serious first loses. If after reading the whole story, you sigh for a long time, look up to the sky and sigh: "If I had married XX at the beginning, maybe it would have turned out like this", congratulations, you are a lucky guy.
If after reading the whole story, you burst into tears and trembled: "tmd, this is how I am now", please recall your first meeting again, ask again if love still exists, and what it takes to give up this marriage cost and damage. A lot of times, life is really about adding and subtracting.
What makes us still willing to say "I do" when we see the mountains and deep valleys of ice and flames ahead? If after reading the bloody stories, you are still willing to say these three words, perhaps, you can tell him "I love you".
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