The beginning of love must be simple and romantic without reason, and the end of love must be silent and helpless in the change. Perhaps it would be more accurate to say that love isn't gone, it's just easily changed. So if you are lucky, if you meet the change later or two people follow the pace of change, love will last longer.
When they have to face the situation of not loving, many people find that they have come a long way. What is even more frightening is that this is not a question that cannot be returned, but that you suddenly can't help but ask yourself, are you together for the sake of being together now? Unfortunately the answer is "yes".
Because what you want is a stable social relationship, without the courage to break the established balance, it has to be together for the sake of being together. Unless you're after something else.
So, nothing The one. When you blame the unhappiness with the person in front of you on the fact that he is not your The one, it is unfair to him, unfair to you, and unfair to love. After all, The one is just an unproven ideal for love. Before this ideal of spiritual cleanliness meets reality, the smarter way is to tighten the ideal a little bit, don't be caught off guard by the change, and think that you are about to be shattered by the reality of the ideal, and the feeling of broken dreams is too uncomfortable. Better to have no dreams.
But in fact, you misunderstood love. Dreams are still there. Maybe you should realize in the dream that the change brought about by time changes one of the two, and the other has to be passively changed; if the two are changed, the two people have to coordinate the magnitude of the change. When you are aware of the change in time and willing to change it with the firmness established by the dream, the dream will continue. The sooner you realize it, the luckier you are.
This should be the third time I have encountered an ideal reshuffle since I entered 2011. But The ruined is the good thing, looking forward to being rebuilt.
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