The fireworks fell, and I was still alone.

Rubye 2022-04-19 09:01:37


I knew it was an unhappy ending. I still chose to watch this movie.
Just wanted to let myself know about all those bad scenarios that could happen to me in the future. That way, you'll know how to go through it.
Bystanders are clear. There is no better spectator than yourself, so it would be much better to spectate yourself in advance.

love. Sometimes it's like a beautiful firework.
When you put it in the sky temporarily, it is beautiful and moving, and you are ecstatic about it. revel. love. fall into it.
Then when it disappears, you feel lost. look around. expect. And then believe that finally no longer beautiful.

The only thing left is the remnants of the breath. It's like a memory that you always miss, but will eventually become the past.

So when love becomes a marriage. More than just a firework must be accepted. It is the indifference and silence after the fireworks.

Dean. An ordinary guy who has not graduated from high school and came to New York from Florida. He is young and strong. He makes a living by moving people. He is a good boy. Take Grandpa to see his new home.

I love this boy so much when I see my grandfather in a good mood. romantic. sensible. The arrangement of the room made me think he was an artist. crazy life. Some bohemian. But the freedom that exudes makes people afraid to associate with the person who is interspersed with the person after marriage, who has nothing to ask for.

Cindy. Just an ordinary girl with countless exs and a messy private life, beautiful, coveted by many perverts, she is also a good girl, she will talk to her grandma in cold family relationships, she will always want to be a Doctor.

She said she started dating when she was 13. There were 25 who had a relationship. Even when he met his ex-boyfriend after marriage. He asked her if she was faithful to her husband. And such a girl wants to become a strong woman in the end.

Time has changed them. They are no longer the boy and girl they once were.
The most important thing in his life is that he is the father of the child, and he is her husband. There is no romance. There is no pursuit. Be content with life as it is.
She becomes realistic. No more messy love life. She has become a woman who lives only for the sake of her family.

But. They couldn't love each other any longer.

They clearly love each other. Obviously have a nice family. But I can't love anymore.

I go back and think about the scenes that touched me over and over again.

He said that he believed in love, that boys were more romantic than girls, that he believed in love at first sight, and that the girl he saw seemed familiar.
She said that she believed in love, and believed that although her parents would quarrel in a bad situation now, they must have been in love with each other at the time, and she would keep asking her grandmother what it felt like to be in love.

They met, just like every vigorous love.
He told her bad jokes on the bus.
He plays the piano, she dances.
She went to him when she was overwhelmed and refused to say anything.
Impatient he would climb up the railing and let her talk, or he would jump off.
She couldn't make the decision to take away the child and couldn't stop crying.
He hugged her tightly. Say, let's form a family.

They kissed in front of churches, priests. Exchange rings. Fingers hug.

As in all good love scenes.

but. They came to an end.

when she filed for divorce. He threw away the ring that had been worn for a long time and could not be taken out. Then find it again.
He kept knocking on the wall impulsively. But let himself calm down. while holding her.
I always think, that's fine, and move on with life.
But. In the end, I knew that it was parting.

It says:
The one you love, worthy of your love, is love.

It says:
about love. How do you believe those feelings, they go away so easily.
I think the only thing you can know is that you have these feelings.

It says:
love at first sight. It's like you know him by feeling, but you don't actually know him.

He said:
"I think she's deja vu... She's very different, like when a song starts playing, you can't help but want to dance."

But. to the end. We all become like everyone else.
to the end. Why did the person we really love choose to separate?


someone said. When you love someone, you will work hard to become what he likes.
But. Why do we still love each other, but not what each other likes anymore?

Fireworks shattered all over the floor. We are back to solitude again.

if. You know that one day in the future, we will all become reality and will not be who we are now.
Will you still love me forever?
if. someday in the future. We are no longer ourselves.
US. How can I continue to love?

How much will you watch with me, the next fireworks after the curtain ends?

Always tell yourself: if you love. Please love.

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  • Kylee 2021-11-12 08:01:15

    I just think that nudity is very unnecessary

  • Makayla 2022-03-23 09:01:34

    A woman's name is Weak. As long as you give a little sweetness and warmth, you will be blindfolded and willing to jump into the fire pit again. But maybe whose marriage is a fire pit, but who makes us so afraid of the cold.

Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: We're inside a robot's vagina

  • Dean: Look, I didn't want to be somebody's husband and I didn't want to be somebody's dad. That wasn't my... goal in life. For some guys it is - wasn't mine. But somehow, I've... it was what I wanted. I didn't know that and it's all I wanna do. I don't want to do anything else. That's all I want to do. I work so I can do that.