It's not that I don't believe in love

Myrna 2022-04-19 09:01:37

I just don't believe in the shelf life of love.

Yesterday, I told C that I must cry a few days ago before going to bed before I can really sleep peacefully. At night, especially before going to bed, the mood is like this, and I can't think of a reason for all the troubles. I've been watching Blue Valentine for the past few days, it's really hard to beat. At first I thought Cindy didn't like it enough or never liked Dean. But after reading it, I felt that Cindy also had her own grief. A love goes from a positive number in a world to a negative number that you can't wait to get rid of. At the same time, I really feel bad for Dean. Sometimes love really doesn't just need to be thrown out. Dean just expressed too much force every time, and didn't even care about the other party's ability to bear. And his sensitivity. Even though everything he does is out of the starting point of loving Cindy, his behavior has made Cindy unable to care about the most source of fiery love. Why do playboys win women's hearts with just words and playful actions without showing affection? And an infatuated man like Dean who is so affectionate ends up getting nothing in the end. Love is so cruel sometimes. Dean, you need to hold back. When I saw him throwing the ring, I suddenly sighed: Love is something you throw it away and then find it back with double effort. Love is sometimes an instinct. It's like when you hear a song and dance with it unconsciously, just like when you see a picture and remember your hometown unconsciously. Even if you know it's a road with no return, you will take it with determination.

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.