Sadly, in the real world only love and affection are really far from enough. When most people marry people who have a good job, it often shows that a good job in the real world plays an important role. Even if it can't be worth the love and affection, it can provide various angles and aspects for the love and affection. support and assistance.
Dean is a super typical example. He'd given his life to Cindy, to Frankie, and was willing to throw away the good at part of him. Of course, as he himself said, his life goals did not have titles such as father and husband, but living with the flow made him fall in love with these titles, so he was willing to pay for these titles, and then indulged in them, so he Instead of doing what cindy thinks he should be good at, he subordinates work to serve his father-husband status. When his life is all about his lover and his daughter, and there is no so-called "tie" brought by some good jobs, he will become very sensitive because of excessive concentration, and sometimes even unreasonably distort cindy's book no meaning. As a result, Cindy was under a lot of pressure of being unable to communicate. It also became one of the reasons for the tragedy.
In addition, the tragedy will also be due to the difference in the values of the two people, or that the marriage itself is a mistake. When the life goal of one of the two parties in the marriage is to do something to reflect their own value, and the other party just wants to go with the flow, the values of the two parties are fundamentally different. Cindy wants to be recognized. As a medical staff, Dean went to work just to better love his daughter and love his wife. His mind was not at all consistent. As time passed, conflicts and rifts were inevitable.
I also want to say that the time is too scary, and the makeup is too powerful. The changes between youth and middle age are so great that it's amazing.
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