How terrible is the impact of the family of origin

Felicia 2022-12-30 06:57:37

I first watched this movie because of my steamed buns, so it came from the fan filter. Baozi's role as a scumbag is actually a little cute, so it may be a little unobjective about him.

I had seen Suicide Squad before, so I was looking forward to Harley Quinn and the Winter Soldier.

I don't know real people, so I'll just talk about movies.

Tanya is a skating genius. She has talent and has been learning since she was a child, so if she is unsuccessful, God will not allow her. She won the award at the age of four, the champion.

Her life was born for skating, or she could only choose to live for skating.

Her mother, who came out with a mean image, smoking a cigarette, loudly asked the coach to let her daughter learn to skate. She even asked her daughter to express herself when she was rejected, and she succeeded.

Tanya has been tied to skating ever since.

She was very strict with Tanya, and even said that she was mean and ruthless. If Tanya relaxed a little, she would reprimand and scold Tanya.

No affection for her daughter at all.

So Tanya and I have a question for the first half of the movie - does she love her daughter?

She once said a few words when arguing with Tanya: I will not be like a gentle mother, that will only make you worthless.

Maybe she was talking about her own mother.

Anyway, she chose to use her own method of education, which also ruined Tanya from the beginning.

She never praised Tanya, and her words were always so ugly. Sometimes even hands-on.

So Tanya lacked love and was with the first domestic abuser who praised her.

Tanya had a line when she became an adult: He hit me because he loved me.

Because her mother scolds her so often, she sees it as a way of loving.

This unhealthy family concept stayed with her for the first half of her life until it destroyed her skating career.

Her mother's education method is still very extreme, focusing on one thing, so Tanya has no way out. If she continued to go to school, maybe her life would not be like this.

She didn't go to college and met her ex-husband. The first person to praise her for her beauty.

They used to be in love, but Tanya didn't have the correct and positive family values, and neither did her ex-husband.

According to her ex-husband's statement that her father was a soldier, and that his family was hardly seen in the whole movie, only a friend with mental problems was accompanied, and it can be guessed that his family was also fragmented.

Two people from families without the proper education are attracted to each other, causing a huge disaster.

Tanya once went to the top, but she left the stage sadly when she was about to reach the top again.

During this period, I thought her mother loved her, although she was extreme, she loved her.

That's what I thought when I saw Tanya, who was trapped in a hotel by reporters, sewing costumes and her mother came to find her.

Her mother got there and said what Tanya had been waiting for so long, I thought the mother-daughter couple was finally going to break up.

As a result, Tanya took the tape recorder out of her.

At that moment everything is not important.

Tanya's mother may love her, but she loves herself more.

I just found out that Tanya's mother's vanity turned out to be so terrible.

Tanya's family ruined Tanya, maybe there is a reason for the pig teammate and the domestic abuser, but the source is the family.

Tanya spent the first half of her life looking for love for her family, but ended up with nothing.

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I, Tonya quotes

  • Tonya Harding: [to camera, immediately after firing a gun at Jeff] This is bullshit. I never did this!

  • LaVona Golden: I made you a champion, knowing you'd hate me for it. That's the sacrifice a mother makes! I wish I'd had a mother like me instead of nice. Nice gets you shit! I didn't like my mother either, so what? I fucking gave you a gift!

    Tonya Harding: You cursed me.